How do you deal with a love for a man that is not yours?

Everybody agrees that loving a person that is already married is very wrong... I cant help it, but I am not going to ruin anyone. Just want to know how to get over/through/by/further/or steal him anyway? thoughts please...How do you deal with a love for a man that is not yours?
Love is wanting what is best for the other. If it is best for him to be left alone, then do that lovingly. You will grow in moral strength and you can be proud of yourself.How do you deal with a love for a man that is not yours?
Freebird,

I commend you. Good builds more good. It is worth it.

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You will find much liberation the day you realize that romantic love is highly overrated. Your hormones are merely ruling you. Don't be a tool! You can live your life by doing great things and contributing to humankind on a global level. Evolution is merely using you as a means to procreate. Don't buy the hype that is romantic love. It is fun and all but use your brain.
Stop and pray for your soulmate.
Love is a stong emotion - and is part of the brain you use. Without emotion you would have very little use of the other brain functions.



You have a problem that he loves someone else. The frustration, anger, and sadness you feel will be part of the solution.