Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How do you deal with an unrequited love?

I feel like such a fool. I shoulda kept my mouth shut, but I accidentally told her I loved her in a sleepy haze a few months ago.. She didn't say it back, but did let me know she has strong feelings for me.



Well, she knows how I feel now, and I've said it once or twice again after that, so she knows I still feel that way.



It seems like she's really into me but still has never said it back to me, and it eats away at me inside. I feel like such an idiot. And I feel so pathetic for being in love with someone who doesn't love me back. It makes me so insecure too.. whenever I get the slightest hint that she's not giving me equal affection, I feel like it's because she doesn't love me. I constantly think she's just settling for me for now, until someone better comes along.



I can't stand these thoughts.. and I hate feeling like such a pathetic chump! She's everything I could ever ask for in a woman. And she is such a wonderful girlfriend. But I need to be loved too... I always just want to end it... but she's everything I could ask for, so I stay!



I guess I'm not everything she could ask for.. I guess that's why my love is unrequited.



And my pride gets to me too.. like I said.. loving someone who doesn't love me.. I feel so weak. I'm so pathetic.



How do I deal with this??How do you deal with an unrequited love?
The good news is she's not just saying it to appease you. Try not telling her that so often. If she doesn't feel the same way, better to know now than keep beating a dead horse. It sounds like it's time for you to look for a girl who feels the same way for you. Stop spending so much time with this one girl, and started dating other girls.



Good luck.
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