Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How to help someone you love deal with the death of a best friend?

Around this time last year my boyfriend lost his best friend in a car accident. I wasn't dating him at the time and never actually met his friend but knew of him. My boyfriend often gets very upset over the fact that his best friend is gone and he also gets this ';i hate the world'; attitude sometimes and i suspect that the reason behind this is because he is still mourning. last night he got the most upset that i have ever seen him get and i just tried to comfort him the best that i could I would really like to know some better ways on how to help him cope with this and since i have not ever dealt with a situation like this before i am not sure where to start, could you please give me some advice?How to help someone you love deal with the death of a best friend?
Through my own experiences I feel that it would be best to ask if he wants to talk about it. I felt better when I did.



If he doesn't respond to that then just don't mention it. He will hurt for a very long time but times a great healer.



Just make sure he knows you're thereHow to help someone you love deal with the death of a best friend?
Well, he's always going to get upset. There's nothing that take away the pain he feels. The best you can do is talk to him about his friend. Have him share memories with you.
you could give him somthing that would chear him up ~sexy time~

or get him to meet some1 new and encouage him to find someone so he could make a new friend



sorry for his los

hope i helped :]
That is BIG!!!!!! I would hate that!!! I know u want to comfort him though it might be best to just leave him and wen he feels better hang more with him. Hope that helps. xo
My brother lost his wife a few years ago, and he still gets upset all the time - always will probably. I just have to let him know that I am here if he needs me, but it is hard because you don't want to keep bringing it up.

Just say to him something like, 'I know it's hard for you, but I am here for you, if you ever want to talk about anything'. Remind him that it's not his fault, and that maybe he is in a better place now.

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