and NOW she told me her ex bf who was 7 years older than her...was a child movie star (i wont say his name...granted he was not popular but still...SHE described him as a famous movie star) i was like WTF.
Then she told me he gave him ORAL and ANAL SEX
I CANT LOOK AT HER The same way again....
am I wrong for dumping her? (I'm a virgin btw...i just believe that it is something VERY special that you should give to the person ur gonna LOVE 4ever)
oh and her entire family = not the nicest ppl...honestly I'm much... hmm how can I say this...';a better catch'; than her. lol I don't wanna be mean, but lets just say my future is much brighter than hers.
I do love her...but how can i deal with this?
Honestly this stuff is just mounting....and mounting and it is weighing me down.
am I a bad person?My gf just confessed this to me.....IDK How to deal with it :'(?
I don't know. Sounds like you are better off, not because of the things she did, but because she kept talking about her ex!My gf just confessed this to me.....IDK How to deal with it :'(?
Are you a bad person? No.
Just stop loving her, bang her, and move on. She seems pretty easy.
I don't think this is something you can (or should be expected to) work past. Give some thought to letting this relationship just fade away and find someone special in her own way.
Dude, ditch her hoe-as*! Find yourself a worthier chick. You seem like a nice guy so finding someone better shouldn't be too hard.
Good luck man!
You are not a bad person. If your a teen, you shouldn't have anything to do with her. Just ask if she can stop mentioning sex and her old boyfriends. If she wants sex, just refuse. I don't really know much about this since I'm only 12.
Not a bad person, but you shoulda got yourself some b4 you dumped her then again you would be a bad person if you did that, but t'would be well worth it
You can't let what she did before she met you come between you. But since it bothers you, tell her you'd rather not know the details of her past love life. (She should know better,btw. And don't ask, no matter how curious you are. It will only hurt.) And if you love her--really love her--her past shouldn't get in the way of your future.
you are not a bad person
to me this girl seems trashy and skanky. evantually you will get over her, you deserve better
wow you sound so much better than her. Youre right you dont need her. Just move on from her dont feel bad, she brought this upon herself. Youll be fine! Theres so many pretty girls out there for you who you can lose your virginity to and feel good about it!!! =) Good luck. Not like you need it though, you sound like a good guy. Dont let these losers weigh you down
You're definitely not the bad person. You just have different values and beliefs. You think it's wrong to have any kind of sex until married, and she thinks it's perfectly fine. Maybe this is why it wouldn't work. You should try to find someone who has the same values as yourself. Also, her talking about her ex's doesn't help your relationship. If she talks about them that much, then why don't she go back to them? Come on, you seem like a nice guy. I'm sure you deserve someone that will treat you right :)
No your not a bad person, but in my opinion i think that you would just be better off with out her in your life. If she's done a lot of things then there won't be many special things that you two can do together. If you do something together that she has already done with another guy then it will just remind her of them and not you. Plus she keeps talking about her ex boyfriends and she could not be fully over them yet.
You sound like a really nice and sweet guy. I'm sure you're pretty cute too lol. You are not a bad person for being hurt like that.
You are one of a few guys who believe you should give your virginity to someone who you are going to love and be with forever.
She doesn't sound like the greatest girl in the world but if you really, truly, honestly love her then you will find a way to forgive her for the things she has done in the past.
Plus, if you really want to break up with her, just keep in mind that someday you are going to meet and amazing woman who is pure just like you and will never hurt you.
Good luck %26lt;3
it might be possible that she is just telling lies to impress you, I wouldn't read too much into it but if your not comfortable then you have a choice.
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