I am in love with my best friend - does he want me too?
It is so hard to judge signals a good friend gives - lots of attention, smiles, touching, being comfortable to get undressed infront of me - from the signals a guy who's interested gives. He is dateing someone else but she dosent treat him right. How can I tell if he fancies me?
By undressing, I just mean he is happy to get changed infront of me if I am round at his, that kinda thing. It drives me peretty wild, I can tell u.How do I deal with unrequitered love?
Just watch for the telltale signs, and use your best judgement. Don't know what else to tell you.How do I deal with unrequitered love?
Do not mess around with a guy who's got a girl. If she's treating him bad he should have the strength to leave her. If not, he's not a man you want to have.
If he's sending signals, and he's already got a girl on the hook, then he's not a nice guy.
If he dumps her, he's fair game, but coming from a guys experience, it is hard to get out of the just friends mode.
Good luck.
A~
Monday, December 12, 2011
How do you deal with one sided love?
Have you ever experienced the pain of loving someone so much and they don't feel the same about you? You feel chemistry with them but they have told you it is not returned. They still want to keep in contact with you but only as a friend but you wish it were different.How do you deal with one sided love?
yeah, it sucks, but i always say to my self if we are REALLY meant to be then, if wouldn't be like this, but u never kno wat could happen in the futureHow do you deal with one sided love?
Well at least you can still see the person, take comfort in that. Besides, maybe this person just doesn't want a relationship right now with anyone. Try to just wait it out, maybe you'll grow on them.
Please answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvctW5JLGoSwc5PhMzSuzKAjzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20091016193920AAXh4oH
Yes! It's very painful and takes forever to heal from. But eventually you do heal and move on. Later, you wonder why it took so long.
Is this happening to you right now? My thoughts are with you.
yeah, it sucks, but i always say to my self if we are REALLY meant to be then, if wouldn't be like this, but u never kno wat could happen in the futureHow do you deal with one sided love?
Well at least you can still see the person, take comfort in that. Besides, maybe this person just doesn't want a relationship right now with anyone. Try to just wait it out, maybe you'll grow on them.
Please answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvctW5JLGoSwc5PhMzSuzKAjzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20091016193920AAXh4oH
Yes! It's very painful and takes forever to heal from. But eventually you do heal and move on. Later, you wonder why it took so long.
Is this happening to you right now? My thoughts are with you.
How hard will it be to balance an Acting Profession with a Computer Science Profession?
So, here's the deal: I LOVE acting and I LOVE computers. After college I plan to move to LA (I currently live in North Carolina) after I find a job there in Computer Science. How hard will it be to do both jobs at the same time?
Thanks!How hard will it be to balance an Acting Profession with a Computer Science Profession?
Masi Oka (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1199811/ ) got his degree in Computer Science and works for George Lucas' Industrial Light and Magic doing CGI for some of the major movies. He also is one of the most famous actors on the hit show, Heroes.
If you seriously pursue acting, you can create your own flexible computer business on top of acting. You can do computer consulting work, repair, etc. while pursuing your passion in acting.
With the exception of Masi Oka's case, it is very difficult to do a regular 9-5 Job while pursuing acting. Unless your boss is REALLY cool and let's you leave to go to auditions, it's going to be hard to work full time and do auditions. Auditions usually happen during the day time.
So your best bet is to be an expert in computers and use your expertise to create your own computer related business. A lot of actors don't have this skill so it will definitely set you apart and you won't have to wait tables like most actors.How hard will it be to balance an Acting Profession with a Computer Science Profession?
have you thought about doing CGI for movies?Bed sheets networking
Thanks!How hard will it be to balance an Acting Profession with a Computer Science Profession?
Masi Oka (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1199811/ ) got his degree in Computer Science and works for George Lucas' Industrial Light and Magic doing CGI for some of the major movies. He also is one of the most famous actors on the hit show, Heroes.
If you seriously pursue acting, you can create your own flexible computer business on top of acting. You can do computer consulting work, repair, etc. while pursuing your passion in acting.
With the exception of Masi Oka's case, it is very difficult to do a regular 9-5 Job while pursuing acting. Unless your boss is REALLY cool and let's you leave to go to auditions, it's going to be hard to work full time and do auditions. Auditions usually happen during the day time.
So your best bet is to be an expert in computers and use your expertise to create your own computer related business. A lot of actors don't have this skill so it will definitely set you apart and you won't have to wait tables like most actors.How hard will it be to balance an Acting Profession with a Computer Science Profession?
have you thought about doing CGI for movies?
How do I deal with my boyfriend who doesnt want me to talk to other guys.?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Since about the 2nd month of dating he told me that he didnt want me to talk to other guys. He says its not a rule, but he says he wont feel the same way about me if I do. So really I dont have much of choice because I dont want to cause him to not love me or care about me. I am not allowed to have a phone because I did text my ex happy birthday. But that was all that I said to him. Just happy late birthday. It wasnt like I was flirting or anything and that was the first thing I had said to him in months. My boyfriend got sooo angry at me, he told me he couldnt trust me having a phone. So now I dont have a phone and on my facebook I cant even have any guys on there. Even if I dont talk to them. I really dont know how to deal with him anymore. I dont have freedom. But the part that gets me mad is that he still talks to girls. Like the cashiers at the local publix he will talk to them. These girls use to be his friends so I dont see how its fair that he can talk to them and I cant talk to any guy that I know. Even tonight I found out that a girl we both know went to where he works and they were talking. I dont understand how to make my boyfriend understand that it isnt fair that I am not allowed to talk to guys but he can. Even if he stops, I still want to be able to have guy friends but I dont know how to do this without causing my boyfriend to hate me or fight with me. I am not really in the stage to fight as I am about 5 months pregnant and it is his baby.How do I deal with my boyfriend who doesnt want me to talk to other guys.?
he doesn't love you if he acts like that. your not in a good relationship and you need to get out of it. and stand up for yourself, you're in control of you life, don't let him be in controlHow do I deal with my boyfriend who doesnt want me to talk to other guys.?
To controlling. Stand up for yourself
He doesn't ';love you'; or ';care for you'; he enjoys controlling and demeaning you.
There is no relationship there, baby or not, I would not be involved with a person like that.
It is best for you to leave him.
As there a girl i liked her boyfriend was a wife and child beater and he wont let her go out much or be on face book anymore. that how i know it best to leave because if he loved you he would not act in this way he would let you be independent.
pregnant or not tell him that you need your freedom
how do you handle him? you break up with him!
He is insecure and really likes you, I used to be like this, just don't flirt with other guys and **** like that, it really pisses us off, don't even come close to flirting and ****, tell him he can trust you and if he really loves you he will understand that you love him and wouldn't do that to him. He is jealous as well. He will get better in time.
You tell him that it isn't fair and that you both play by the same rules. I think its fair if that if you mutally agree your not allowed to talk to the oppisite sex thats fair or you don't agree at which point you both talk to who your like.
Maybe him being a dad will make him more mature. I'd personally for the sake of your baby give him a chance. I think he deserves that.
be able to tell love to a guy who just wants to have self-control, and I am speaking from experience. 95% of my close friends are guys to the point where some of them r like my blood brothers to me, and my ex had a problem with it. That's only the first red flag. It will turn into something else and get worse. A year is too long for him to be acting like that. He didn't create u with a woman to give birth, so you are not his child. I think deep down you know what u really need to do but just want someone to say something different to give you hope. As hard as it may seem, and when you get tired enough, you'll do what you know the real answer to your question is: get rid of him
You are in a bad situation. He is controlling and you need to leave him ASAP! He doesnt care about you because if he did he would not need to control you like that. He has issues, trust me. Sorry to break it to but its the truth you wont understand now cause your in the relationship later you will understand. Think about it would you do what he does to you to someone you love?
I think you know what you should do. It's important in a relationship, to make sure both partners are giving their effort, the same amount of effort to make the relationship work. A girl shouldn't be the martyr. Your boyfriend is becoming too controlling. When guys get too much power, more dominion it can get scary. Because then they'll won't think of anything else than their power they have. Which controlling boyfriends lead to abusive relationships. You need sit down and talk with him, because if he's really the one for you he will listen and believe you. If it doesn't help talking to him, you need to get away from your boyfriend. I know your carrying his baby, but just think about what kind of life you want for your child. So don't fall for his sympathy, you need to be alert. Like if he threatens to kill himself if you leave, that's a big red flag. Luck to you and your situation. I'll be praying for you. :)
Talk to him about the issue if u need to
he doesn't love you if he acts like that. your not in a good relationship and you need to get out of it. and stand up for yourself, you're in control of you life, don't let him be in controlHow do I deal with my boyfriend who doesnt want me to talk to other guys.?
To controlling. Stand up for yourself
He doesn't ';love you'; or ';care for you'; he enjoys controlling and demeaning you.
There is no relationship there, baby or not, I would not be involved with a person like that.
It is best for you to leave him.
As there a girl i liked her boyfriend was a wife and child beater and he wont let her go out much or be on face book anymore. that how i know it best to leave because if he loved you he would not act in this way he would let you be independent.
pregnant or not tell him that you need your freedom
how do you handle him? you break up with him!
He is insecure and really likes you, I used to be like this, just don't flirt with other guys and **** like that, it really pisses us off, don't even come close to flirting and ****, tell him he can trust you and if he really loves you he will understand that you love him and wouldn't do that to him. He is jealous as well. He will get better in time.
You tell him that it isn't fair and that you both play by the same rules. I think its fair if that if you mutally agree your not allowed to talk to the oppisite sex thats fair or you don't agree at which point you both talk to who your like.
Maybe him being a dad will make him more mature. I'd personally for the sake of your baby give him a chance. I think he deserves that.
be able to tell love to a guy who just wants to have self-control, and I am speaking from experience. 95% of my close friends are guys to the point where some of them r like my blood brothers to me, and my ex had a problem with it. That's only the first red flag. It will turn into something else and get worse. A year is too long for him to be acting like that. He didn't create u with a woman to give birth, so you are not his child. I think deep down you know what u really need to do but just want someone to say something different to give you hope. As hard as it may seem, and when you get tired enough, you'll do what you know the real answer to your question is: get rid of him
You are in a bad situation. He is controlling and you need to leave him ASAP! He doesnt care about you because if he did he would not need to control you like that. He has issues, trust me. Sorry to break it to but its the truth you wont understand now cause your in the relationship later you will understand. Think about it would you do what he does to you to someone you love?
I think you know what you should do. It's important in a relationship, to make sure both partners are giving their effort, the same amount of effort to make the relationship work. A girl shouldn't be the martyr. Your boyfriend is becoming too controlling. When guys get too much power, more dominion it can get scary. Because then they'll won't think of anything else than their power they have. Which controlling boyfriends lead to abusive relationships. You need sit down and talk with him, because if he's really the one for you he will listen and believe you. If it doesn't help talking to him, you need to get away from your boyfriend. I know your carrying his baby, but just think about what kind of life you want for your child. So don't fall for his sympathy, you need to be alert. Like if he threatens to kill himself if you leave, that's a big red flag. Luck to you and your situation. I'll be praying for you. :)
Talk to him about the issue if u need to
Sunday, November 21, 2010
How should I deal with this unrequited love?
She's my childhood/best friend, and right now, she currently has a bf in a relationship lasting over a year now. Even though I see her approximately once every 3-4 months, each night I always find myself thinking of her. We do keep in contact sometimes, and one thing that really threw me off was that she told me she used to have a crush on me back in middle school. I also had asked her to my school's prom and she said, ';yes.'; Now what?How should I deal with this unrequited love?
Hello jda091
Love is a funny thing . . . what we call love is basically the ultimate in egoism. We feel love for someone (or something) because that person or thing makes us feel good. It is all about us. In fact, if someone or something does not make us feel good - we tend to say we hate it.
I found this article for you which defines true love - when we give completely of ourselves, with no thought of ourselves. I know that many women, and probably men, feel that they have this kind of love. But if we really honestly analyse our motives, we will see that we cannot move even a muscle unless we can perceive some benefit in it for ourselves . . .
http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-lov
I hope this helps
Shalom
MemHow should I deal with this unrequited love?
sounds like you both have interest in eachother
Hello jda091
Love is a funny thing . . . what we call love is basically the ultimate in egoism. We feel love for someone (or something) because that person or thing makes us feel good. It is all about us. In fact, if someone or something does not make us feel good - we tend to say we hate it.
I found this article for you which defines true love - when we give completely of ourselves, with no thought of ourselves. I know that many women, and probably men, feel that they have this kind of love. But if we really honestly analyse our motives, we will see that we cannot move even a muscle unless we can perceive some benefit in it for ourselves . . .
http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-lov
I hope this helps
Shalom
MemHow should I deal with this unrequited love?
sounds like you both have interest in eachother
How could i deal with this?
Okay, so i've been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months. And i can honestly say i love that boy to death. But latley he has been going through some trouble at home and we have been having fights about his brother, who recently got released from jail, he was convicted of rape against a minor, not any way related to me, and my boyfriend has been going crazy, saying that we should secretly go out, so that his brother dosent know about me, because his parents are letting him move back in with them:/ And when i tell him no, no, no, hes been getting seriously angry. Like to the point were his hands get balled up in fists and he is red and shaking with anger and it kinda scares me when he does that although he usually just walks it off.
I was thinking, maybe he needs counceling. Because if he were ever to hit me, i would leave him. No questions asked, iv been down that alley. But i love him so much. Im thinking maybe i could tell the highschool councelor, or something. I really dont want to loose him, and if i can help him in any way i will.
And dont tell me maybe we should secretly go out. Thats stupid. Im 16. He is 18 and will soon go to college. I never go to his home anyway because his parents hate me. Iv never met his brother. And never will. What do you think?
Btw, this isnt my account its my sisters, to anyone who knows her or whatever.How could i deal with this?
I think there is a problem he wants to secretly wants to date. That's not fair to you, but who is it a secret to? His parents and brother? Maybe he is trying to protect you from them. Talk to him about it. If he wants to secretly keep you from everyone, well that's a different story.How could i deal with this?
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I was thinking, maybe he needs counceling. Because if he were ever to hit me, i would leave him. No questions asked, iv been down that alley. But i love him so much. Im thinking maybe i could tell the highschool councelor, or something. I really dont want to loose him, and if i can help him in any way i will.
And dont tell me maybe we should secretly go out. Thats stupid. Im 16. He is 18 and will soon go to college. I never go to his home anyway because his parents hate me. Iv never met his brother. And never will. What do you think?
Btw, this isnt my account its my sisters, to anyone who knows her or whatever.How could i deal with this?
I think there is a problem he wants to secretly wants to date. That's not fair to you, but who is it a secret to? His parents and brother? Maybe he is trying to protect you from them. Talk to him about it. If he wants to secretly keep you from everyone, well that's a different story.How could i deal with this?
suck his dick
How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
A friend of mine (well he's more than a friend, we don't have an official title but we love each other and he's been talking marriage) is going overseas in about 10 months and I want to know how to deal with him being so far away. I'm so worried about him already just knowing that he's going to be over there. How do I deal with it while he's gone? If you're in a similar situation...what helps you?
Thanks in advance.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
my fiancee has been oversees and will be back in january. i work two jobs, exercise, do little things that make me happy. i send him a letter every other day, a care package once a week. i stay busy, and keep him informed. it is so hard, probably the hardest thing. but i couldn't imagine life any other way right now. good luck - it takes a strong woman.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
Write them everyday! It will make you feel like you are part of their everyday life, plus when yu are so far away you need the support from the ones you love the most to make it through each day. Even if you don't have much to say(or the time to write a long letter) just send a card that simply says ';I love you';. Also keep reminding yourselves that yes everyday that passes is one day further from the last time you saw them, but it's also one day closer to the next time you will. Good Luck
Remember to be supportive! Write him all the time, stuff like that. And also remember to keep your self entertained. Make a life for yourself a side from him. Don't revolve everything around him because that's only going to make you stress and worry all the time. Start hanging with friends more and maybe get a hobbie. You will be okay! It isn't as bad as it seems! Just remember to stay faithful and what not. What helped me most was being around friends all the time, always having something to do instead of sitting around and thinking. Good luck! :)
Thanks in advance.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
my fiancee has been oversees and will be back in january. i work two jobs, exercise, do little things that make me happy. i send him a letter every other day, a care package once a week. i stay busy, and keep him informed. it is so hard, probably the hardest thing. but i couldn't imagine life any other way right now. good luck - it takes a strong woman.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
Write them everyday! It will make you feel like you are part of their everyday life, plus when yu are so far away you need the support from the ones you love the most to make it through each day. Even if you don't have much to say(or the time to write a long letter) just send a card that simply says ';I love you';. Also keep reminding yourselves that yes everyday that passes is one day further from the last time you saw them, but it's also one day closer to the next time you will. Good Luck
Remember to be supportive! Write him all the time, stuff like that. And also remember to keep your self entertained. Make a life for yourself a side from him. Don't revolve everything around him because that's only going to make you stress and worry all the time. Start hanging with friends more and maybe get a hobbie. You will be okay! It isn't as bad as it seems! Just remember to stay faithful and what not. What helped me most was being around friends all the time, always having something to do instead of sitting around and thinking. Good luck! :)
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