How to deal with an interesting situation?

There is this guy who i dated but who never wanted to be in a relationship with me even though we knew that we liked each other. So now I have moved on but he has a new girl and is doing the same thing with her. This new girl and I have now become good friends and I am trying to help her cope. They are both at the age where they need to start settling down. She is in love with him and would definitely marry him. He acts like he likes her but never wants to commit to anything. We have finally found out the reason for this: He was seriously hurt by a girl in the past which caused him to physically hurt himself. Now he is afraid of that happening again. Everyone is trying to get them together but somehow I think I am the one who should because I can relate since I went through the same thing with him. How can I help get him past this to finally commit to the girl so he doesn't hurt her by leading her on or anyone else?How to deal with an interesting situation?
Just talk to him. You said that you went through the same thing that he did. If he knows how bad it feels then he shouldn't do it to other people. He'll be more likely to listen and take you seriously if he knows that you can relate to what he's going through. If this doesn't work, try to help your friend get over him. I know it is not easy, but if you could, then having your support can help her get over it faster.How to deal with an interesting situation?
Try Singles %26amp; Dating.
I would honestly say that in doing something like this you are meddling. This is their relationship, and if he really wants help he will ask for it. If you have not been asked by him personally, there is nothing you can say or do, no poem you can write, no book you can buy them, no pinkie swearing, no motivational internet links or youtube videos that you can send him that will change him. A man is not a project to mold and shape. He is either going to commit to this girl or he is going to do the same thing he did to you, and only if he sees this as a problem and takes the steps to change is he going to break out of this problem.



I really wish I could give you better advice, but just back off as soon as you can. Are you planning on orchestrating their entire relationship? You should also ask yourself if maybe you are trying to live vicariously through her, and hoping that you will somehow gain some good love karma from this.



And that's the best advice I can give.