How do you deal with a love ones death?

when i was five my dad got in a bad car accident he was at work drinking and got on the road about 10 Mins before all of this happen he called and said he'll be home soon but never came and it still hurts to this day and its been nine years since his death so how do i go by dealing with his deathHow do you deal with a love ones death?
the best thing you can do is keep him in your thoughts. this may hurt you but think of all he fun you guys had and the good things about him.

it will hurt because he wont be there to laugh with you about them but it works trust me. when your down and thinking about him think of something he would do to make you feel better and it will help. keep him in your memories. when you see or hear things that remind you about him just think of how happy he is of you even if he ain't here with you. he's with you in Spirit. and just know that he is looking down at you watching you and goes with you ever where in Spirit.How do you deal with a love ones death?
The best thing you can do is keep him in your thoughts, try to remember all the good things about him and most importantly know that he loves you and is always around even though you cant see him.

Keep lots of pictures of him around, and make sure you celebrate his birthday, don't let his memory die.
Although tragic, his death probably saved lives of innocent people. If you believe he is better now than you can move on. I had a similar situation. I accept that while they were here they touched the lives of many.