Monday, December 12, 2011

How to deal with this?

ok, so as much as he hurt me, I still love my ex and sometimes I randomly get stuck in these moods where i'm pissed off at the world because I keep thinking of him and missing him. we both said and did somethings we shouldn't have, and we both hurt each other. it's been about two weeks since we last spoke, and a month since we broke up. i've seen him commenting a few girls on myspace, and he always put ';don't care'; and ';single'; on his myspace. im not gonna lie, i've comented other guys too and gotten y share of coments, but i love him more then anything and i would kill to have him back. it hurts to see him talking to other girls and putting that on his status, and it hurts e that he doesn't care as he says. how do you deal with loving someone who doesn't love you, and how do you deal with seeing the person you love with soeone else? i've never dealt with this before and it's a lot harder then i thought it would be. and also, is it possible that he's completely forgotten I exist?How to deal with this?
What did he do to hurt you? Why did you break up?



You broke up for a reason. Move on with your life. Don't go back. Move forward. Why does it hurt that he says ';don't care';? He's no longer with you, so he doesn't care. You don't love him. It sounds like you like the anguish and drama of it all. If you both really loved each other, then you wouldn't have done whatever you both did to hurt each other. Stop checking his My Space page. You're on the verge of becoming a stalker.How to deal with this?
he could just be putting on an act because he's hurt too. if you can, try and talk to him about it and if it still doesn't work then you just need to try and move on. it will be difficult and long but you have to keep in mind that if it didn't work out its for a reason and it wasn't meant to be. instead of only remembering the good times, you have to remember some bad times too, to remind yourself of why you two aren't right for each other. and no matter what just remember that if this guy didn't work out, that means there is an even better guy waiting for you and its only a matter of time before you start a new chapter in your life. whether it takes a week, a month, or a year, it will happen you just have to believe that it will all be ok

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