She's my childhood/best friend, and right now, she currently has a bf in a relationship lasting over a year now. Even though I see her approximately once every 3-4 months, each night I always find myself thinking of her. We do keep in contact sometimes, and one thing that really threw me off was that she told me she used to have a crush on me back in middle school. I also had asked her to my school's prom and she said, ';yes.'; Now what?How should I deal with this unrequited love?
Hello jda091
Love is a funny thing . . . what we call love is basically the ultimate in egoism. We feel love for someone (or something) because that person or thing makes us feel good. It is all about us. In fact, if someone or something does not make us feel good - we tend to say we hate it.
I found this article for you which defines true love - when we give completely of ourselves, with no thought of ourselves. I know that many women, and probably men, feel that they have this kind of love. But if we really honestly analyse our motives, we will see that we cannot move even a muscle unless we can perceive some benefit in it for ourselves . . .
http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-lov
I hope this helps
Shalom
MemHow should I deal with this unrequited love?
sounds like you both have interest in eachother
Sunday, November 21, 2010
How could i deal with this?
Okay, so i've been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months. And i can honestly say i love that boy to death. But latley he has been going through some trouble at home and we have been having fights about his brother, who recently got released from jail, he was convicted of rape against a minor, not any way related to me, and my boyfriend has been going crazy, saying that we should secretly go out, so that his brother dosent know about me, because his parents are letting him move back in with them:/ And when i tell him no, no, no, hes been getting seriously angry. Like to the point were his hands get balled up in fists and he is red and shaking with anger and it kinda scares me when he does that although he usually just walks it off.
I was thinking, maybe he needs counceling. Because if he were ever to hit me, i would leave him. No questions asked, iv been down that alley. But i love him so much. Im thinking maybe i could tell the highschool councelor, or something. I really dont want to loose him, and if i can help him in any way i will.
And dont tell me maybe we should secretly go out. Thats stupid. Im 16. He is 18 and will soon go to college. I never go to his home anyway because his parents hate me. Iv never met his brother. And never will. What do you think?
Btw, this isnt my account its my sisters, to anyone who knows her or whatever.How could i deal with this?
I think there is a problem he wants to secretly wants to date. That's not fair to you, but who is it a secret to? His parents and brother? Maybe he is trying to protect you from them. Talk to him about it. If he wants to secretly keep you from everyone, well that's a different story.How could i deal with this?
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I was thinking, maybe he needs counceling. Because if he were ever to hit me, i would leave him. No questions asked, iv been down that alley. But i love him so much. Im thinking maybe i could tell the highschool councelor, or something. I really dont want to loose him, and if i can help him in any way i will.
And dont tell me maybe we should secretly go out. Thats stupid. Im 16. He is 18 and will soon go to college. I never go to his home anyway because his parents hate me. Iv never met his brother. And never will. What do you think?
Btw, this isnt my account its my sisters, to anyone who knows her or whatever.How could i deal with this?
I think there is a problem he wants to secretly wants to date. That's not fair to you, but who is it a secret to? His parents and brother? Maybe he is trying to protect you from them. Talk to him about it. If he wants to secretly keep you from everyone, well that's a different story.How could i deal with this?
suck his dick
How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
A friend of mine (well he's more than a friend, we don't have an official title but we love each other and he's been talking marriage) is going overseas in about 10 months and I want to know how to deal with him being so far away. I'm so worried about him already just knowing that he's going to be over there. How do I deal with it while he's gone? If you're in a similar situation...what helps you?
Thanks in advance.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
my fiancee has been oversees and will be back in january. i work two jobs, exercise, do little things that make me happy. i send him a letter every other day, a care package once a week. i stay busy, and keep him informed. it is so hard, probably the hardest thing. but i couldn't imagine life any other way right now. good luck - it takes a strong woman.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
Write them everyday! It will make you feel like you are part of their everyday life, plus when yu are so far away you need the support from the ones you love the most to make it through each day. Even if you don't have much to say(or the time to write a long letter) just send a card that simply says ';I love you';. Also keep reminding yourselves that yes everyday that passes is one day further from the last time you saw them, but it's also one day closer to the next time you will. Good Luck
Remember to be supportive! Write him all the time, stuff like that. And also remember to keep your self entertained. Make a life for yourself a side from him. Don't revolve everything around him because that's only going to make you stress and worry all the time. Start hanging with friends more and maybe get a hobbie. You will be okay! It isn't as bad as it seems! Just remember to stay faithful and what not. What helped me most was being around friends all the time, always having something to do instead of sitting around and thinking. Good luck! :)
Thanks in advance.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
my fiancee has been oversees and will be back in january. i work two jobs, exercise, do little things that make me happy. i send him a letter every other day, a care package once a week. i stay busy, and keep him informed. it is so hard, probably the hardest thing. but i couldn't imagine life any other way right now. good luck - it takes a strong woman.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
Write them everyday! It will make you feel like you are part of their everyday life, plus when yu are so far away you need the support from the ones you love the most to make it through each day. Even if you don't have much to say(or the time to write a long letter) just send a card that simply says ';I love you';. Also keep reminding yourselves that yes everyday that passes is one day further from the last time you saw them, but it's also one day closer to the next time you will. Good Luck
Remember to be supportive! Write him all the time, stuff like that. And also remember to keep your self entertained. Make a life for yourself a side from him. Don't revolve everything around him because that's only going to make you stress and worry all the time. Start hanging with friends more and maybe get a hobbie. You will be okay! It isn't as bad as it seems! Just remember to stay faithful and what not. What helped me most was being around friends all the time, always having something to do instead of sitting around and thinking. Good luck! :)
Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend was being too friendly with other boys?
Girls, how would you feel if your boyfriend kept on staring at you? (Because he wants to keep an eye on you, just to check if you're too close to any guy.)Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
if i had one, it'd make me nervous.Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
id love it!
:P
kick his a$$
Depends on the boy, if I thought there was a crush then it would bother me alot, otherwise I wouldnt care
I might say something but no need to act unless I know somethings up
It would drive me to the point of possibly breaking up. What kind of a relationship is it without him trusting me?
It'd be sweet but unconfortable
I'm not someone who gets jealous easily, nor am I someone who is willing to stand for petty jealousy.
My girlfriend and I both have good friends of the opposite gender - we don't sever or reduce our friendships just because we're afraid we might irrationally piss each other off.
Paranoia is a seriously negative quality; it suggests that you've either got major emotional baggage, or you're the type who cheats (and thus is super paranoid about other people cheating).
i would like it:)
can u plz answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;
i hate it but he thinks he can do what ever he wants!
Girls, how would you feel if your boyfriend kept on staring at you? (Because he wants to keep an eye on you, just to check if you're too close to any guy.)Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
if i had one, it'd make me nervous.Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
id love it!
:P
kick his a$$
Depends on the boy, if I thought there was a crush then it would bother me alot, otherwise I wouldnt care
I might say something but no need to act unless I know somethings up
It would drive me to the point of possibly breaking up. What kind of a relationship is it without him trusting me?
It'd be sweet but unconfortable
I'm not someone who gets jealous easily, nor am I someone who is willing to stand for petty jealousy.
My girlfriend and I both have good friends of the opposite gender - we don't sever or reduce our friendships just because we're afraid we might irrationally piss each other off.
Paranoia is a seriously negative quality; it suggests that you've either got major emotional baggage, or you're the type who cheats (and thus is super paranoid about other people cheating).
i would like it:)
can u plz answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;
i hate it but he thinks he can do what ever he wants!
How do you deal with someone you love being stationed overseas for a long period of time?
My boyfriend is in the army and he is going to be stationed on assignment in Egypt for 13 months beginning at the end of may. I am really having a hard time dealing with the idea of him being gone for that long. I am just looking for some coping mechanisms and reassurance.How do you deal with someone you love being stationed overseas for a long period of time?
.It's not easy but you focus on your work or kids or friends or school or hobbies or whatever you have here at home. You keep in touch with him as much as you can. When I was married to a man in the Air Force, computers were not common. He got one 10-minute morale call a month when he was overseas, and otherwise we communicated via snail mail (handwritten letters), for an entire year....so I know what you are facing, but you'll have more contact with your guy as computer access has changed things over the years.
It's not easy being the partner of a military person. You must be patient, independent, and have a lot of trust in one another.How do you deal with someone you love being stationed overseas for a long period of time?
My Fiance is in The Marines and Yes i know how its like. Right now hes stationed in Camp Pendelton(California).Right now i live in Illinois, Ive been like this for almost 3 years.But its totally worth it. Yes Its really hard, but i think if you guys really love each other everything will be okay. You guys need to have a very good relationship for example, trust and love. Sometimes it gets really tough but soon you get used to it. Good Luck with everything!
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.It's not easy but you focus on your work or kids or friends or school or hobbies or whatever you have here at home. You keep in touch with him as much as you can. When I was married to a man in the Air Force, computers were not common. He got one 10-minute morale call a month when he was overseas, and otherwise we communicated via snail mail (handwritten letters), for an entire year....so I know what you are facing, but you'll have more contact with your guy as computer access has changed things over the years.
It's not easy being the partner of a military person. You must be patient, independent, and have a lot of trust in one another.How do you deal with someone you love being stationed overseas for a long period of time?
My Fiance is in The Marines and Yes i know how its like. Right now hes stationed in Camp Pendelton(California).Right now i live in Illinois, Ive been like this for almost 3 years.But its totally worth it. Yes Its really hard, but i think if you guys really love each other everything will be okay. You guys need to have a very good relationship for example, trust and love. Sometimes it gets really tough but soon you get used to it. Good Luck with everything!
use internet ,messenger with webcam for staying connected
How to deal when you love someone and they're taken?
and they claim to love you too, but you know its wrong so you dont do anything to get with them or make them split upHow to deal when you love someone and they're taken?
fight for those you loveHow to deal when you love someone and they're taken?
just let it be
i'm sure theres someone else out there that you'll like in the future ;)
fight for those you loveHow to deal when you love someone and they're taken?
just let it be
i'm sure theres someone else out there that you'll like in the future ;)
How do you or your loved ones deal with IBS?
I am ';family diagnosed'; with IBS. (About half my family has it, and they tell me that I do as well with the symptoms I have.) I'm having a particularly bad bout the last few days. What do you eat to keep your stomach from going too haywire? How do you deal with the pain? What medicines, if any, help?How do you or your loved ones deal with IBS?
Try to eliminate as much stress as possible (I know, easier said than done) I drink LOTS of water all day, but mostly because I don't want to be tempted to eat something I shouldn't. I don't eat meat at all. As far as medications, take an OTC probiotic. I also have a prescription for Lomotil which helps tremendously! I would really recommend going to a doctor to make sure that is what you have. Colitis can sometimes mimic IBS (my husband has microscopic colitis) but his syptoms aren't a daily thing, his come and go every few weeks.How do you or your loved ones deal with IBS?
A reasonable amount of fiber. I prefer bran cereal. Too much or wrong kind can irritate, but it's individual. Drink plenty of water. Best med I know of is old, but have used it with a lot of success and as a nurse, I've seen it work when taken faithfully for at least a while. Donnatal is a combination drug with Belladonna for drying effect and phenobarbital to relax the spasms. Hard to develop any addiction because Belladonna is a poison in large quantities. Regular exercise helps bowels and faithful going when nature calls, esp if symptoms include constipation (it can be either) that is, don't postpone using the bathroom too long. I also have found (with constipation) abdominal massage helps. Rub up the right side of belly, accross to the left then down. Hope this helps.
Hi Rose, I have had IBS since I was in my teens. An ole country doctor told me to eat anything I want. He said the best way to control it is to take a one or two quart plain warm tap water enema everyday. It has worked for me for over 40yrs. I never have any bloating, pain, gas, tiredness, etc. I know it sounds bad, but it works.short hair styles microsoft web hosting
Try to eliminate as much stress as possible (I know, easier said than done) I drink LOTS of water all day, but mostly because I don't want to be tempted to eat something I shouldn't. I don't eat meat at all. As far as medications, take an OTC probiotic. I also have a prescription for Lomotil which helps tremendously! I would really recommend going to a doctor to make sure that is what you have. Colitis can sometimes mimic IBS (my husband has microscopic colitis) but his syptoms aren't a daily thing, his come and go every few weeks.How do you or your loved ones deal with IBS?
A reasonable amount of fiber. I prefer bran cereal. Too much or wrong kind can irritate, but it's individual. Drink plenty of water. Best med I know of is old, but have used it with a lot of success and as a nurse, I've seen it work when taken faithfully for at least a while. Donnatal is a combination drug with Belladonna for drying effect and phenobarbital to relax the spasms. Hard to develop any addiction because Belladonna is a poison in large quantities. Regular exercise helps bowels and faithful going when nature calls, esp if symptoms include constipation (it can be either) that is, don't postpone using the bathroom too long. I also have found (with constipation) abdominal massage helps. Rub up the right side of belly, accross to the left then down. Hope this helps.
Hi Rose, I have had IBS since I was in my teens. An ole country doctor told me to eat anything I want. He said the best way to control it is to take a one or two quart plain warm tap water enema everyday. It has worked for me for over 40yrs. I never have any bloating, pain, gas, tiredness, etc. I know it sounds bad, but it works.
How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
A friend of mine (well he's more than a friend, we don't have an official title but we love each other and he's been talking marriage) is going overseas in about 10 months and I want to know how to deal with him being so far away. I'm so worried about him already just knowing that he's going to be over there. How do I deal with it while he's gone? If you're in a similar situation...what helps you?
Thanks in advance.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
my fiancee has been oversees and will be back in january. i work two jobs, exercise, do little things that make me happy. i send him a letter every other day, a care package once a week. i stay busy, and keep him informed. it is so hard, probably the hardest thing. but i couldn't imagine life any other way right now. good luck - it takes a strong woman.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
Write them everyday! It will make you feel like you are part of their everyday life, plus when yu are so far away you need the support from the ones you love the most to make it through each day. Even if you don't have much to say(or the time to write a long letter) just send a card that simply says ';I love you';. Also keep reminding yourselves that yes everyday that passes is one day further from the last time you saw them, but it's also one day closer to the next time you will. Good Luck
Remember to be supportive! Write him all the time, stuff like that. And also remember to keep your self entertained. Make a life for yourself a side from him. Don't revolve everything around him because that's only going to make you stress and worry all the time. Start hanging with friends more and maybe get a hobbie. You will be okay! It isn't as bad as it seems! Just remember to stay faithful and what not. What helped me most was being around friends all the time, always having something to do instead of sitting around and thinking. Good luck! :)
Thanks in advance.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
my fiancee has been oversees and will be back in january. i work two jobs, exercise, do little things that make me happy. i send him a letter every other day, a care package once a week. i stay busy, and keep him informed. it is so hard, probably the hardest thing. but i couldn't imagine life any other way right now. good luck - it takes a strong woman.How do you military gfs and wives (and even bfs and husbands) deal with your loves being so far away?
Write them everyday! It will make you feel like you are part of their everyday life, plus when yu are so far away you need the support from the ones you love the most to make it through each day. Even if you don't have much to say(or the time to write a long letter) just send a card that simply says ';I love you';. Also keep reminding yourselves that yes everyday that passes is one day further from the last time you saw them, but it's also one day closer to the next time you will. Good Luck
Remember to be supportive! Write him all the time, stuff like that. And also remember to keep your self entertained. Make a life for yourself a side from him. Don't revolve everything around him because that's only going to make you stress and worry all the time. Start hanging with friends more and maybe get a hobbie. You will be okay! It isn't as bad as it seems! Just remember to stay faithful and what not. What helped me most was being around friends all the time, always having something to do instead of sitting around and thinking. Good luck! :)
Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend was being too friendly with other boys?
Girls, how would you feel if your boyfriend kept on staring at you? (Because he wants to keep an eye on you, just to check if you're too close to any guy.)Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
if i had one, it'd make me nervous.Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
id love it!
:P
kick his a$$
Depends on the boy, if I thought there was a crush then it would bother me alot, otherwise I wouldnt care
I might say something but no need to act unless I know somethings up
It would drive me to the point of possibly breaking up. What kind of a relationship is it without him trusting me?
It'd be sweet but unconfortable
I'm not someone who gets jealous easily, nor am I someone who is willing to stand for petty jealousy.
My girlfriend and I both have good friends of the opposite gender - we don't sever or reduce our friendships just because we're afraid we might irrationally piss each other off.
Paranoia is a seriously negative quality; it suggests that you've either got major emotional baggage, or you're the type who cheats (and thus is super paranoid about other people cheating).
i would like it:)
can u plz answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;
i hate it but he thinks he can do what ever he wants!
Girls, how would you feel if your boyfriend kept on staring at you? (Because he wants to keep an eye on you, just to check if you're too close to any guy.)Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
if i had one, it'd make me nervous.Love: Dealing With Jealousy And Staring?
id love it!
:P
kick his a$$
Depends on the boy, if I thought there was a crush then it would bother me alot, otherwise I wouldnt care
I might say something but no need to act unless I know somethings up
It would drive me to the point of possibly breaking up. What kind of a relationship is it without him trusting me?
It'd be sweet but unconfortable
I'm not someone who gets jealous easily, nor am I someone who is willing to stand for petty jealousy.
My girlfriend and I both have good friends of the opposite gender - we don't sever or reduce our friendships just because we're afraid we might irrationally piss each other off.
Paranoia is a seriously negative quality; it suggests that you've either got major emotional baggage, or you're the type who cheats (and thus is super paranoid about other people cheating).
i would like it:)
can u plz answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;
i hate it but he thinks he can do what ever he wants!
How do you deal with someone you love being stationed overseas for a long period of time?
My boyfriend is in the army and he is going to be stationed on assignment in Egypt for 13 months beginning at the end of may. I am really having a hard time dealing with the idea of him being gone for that long. I am just looking for some coping mechanisms and reassurance.How do you deal with someone you love being stationed overseas for a long period of time?
.It's not easy but you focus on your work or kids or friends or school or hobbies or whatever you have here at home. You keep in touch with him as much as you can. When I was married to a man in the Air Force, computers were not common. He got one 10-minute morale call a month when he was overseas, and otherwise we communicated via snail mail (handwritten letters), for an entire year....so I know what you are facing, but you'll have more contact with your guy as computer access has changed things over the years.
It's not easy being the partner of a military person. You must be patient, independent, and have a lot of trust in one another.How do you deal with someone you love being stationed overseas for a long period of time?
My Fiance is in The Marines and Yes i know how its like. Right now hes stationed in Camp Pendelton(California).Right now i live in Illinois, Ive been like this for almost 3 years.But its totally worth it. Yes Its really hard, but i think if you guys really love each other everything will be okay. You guys need to have a very good relationship for example, trust and love. Sometimes it gets really tough but soon you get used to it. Good Luck with everything!
use internet ,messenger with webcam for staying connected
.It's not easy but you focus on your work or kids or friends or school or hobbies or whatever you have here at home. You keep in touch with him as much as you can. When I was married to a man in the Air Force, computers were not common. He got one 10-minute morale call a month when he was overseas, and otherwise we communicated via snail mail (handwritten letters), for an entire year....so I know what you are facing, but you'll have more contact with your guy as computer access has changed things over the years.
It's not easy being the partner of a military person. You must be patient, independent, and have a lot of trust in one another.How do you deal with someone you love being stationed overseas for a long period of time?
My Fiance is in The Marines and Yes i know how its like. Right now hes stationed in Camp Pendelton(California).Right now i live in Illinois, Ive been like this for almost 3 years.But its totally worth it. Yes Its really hard, but i think if you guys really love each other everything will be okay. You guys need to have a very good relationship for example, trust and love. Sometimes it gets really tough but soon you get used to it. Good Luck with everything!
use internet ,messenger with webcam for staying connected
How to deal when you love someone and they're taken?
and they claim to love you too, but you know its wrong so you dont do anything to get with them or make them split upHow to deal when you love someone and they're taken?
fight for those you loveHow to deal when you love someone and they're taken?
just let it be
i'm sure theres someone else out there that you'll like in the future ;)
fight for those you loveHow to deal when you love someone and they're taken?
just let it be
i'm sure theres someone else out there that you'll like in the future ;)
How do you or your loved ones deal with IBS?
I am ';family diagnosed'; with IBS. (About half my family has it, and they tell me that I do as well with the symptoms I have.) I'm having a particularly bad bout the last few days. What do you eat to keep your stomach from going too haywire? How do you deal with the pain? What medicines, if any, help?How do you or your loved ones deal with IBS?
Try to eliminate as much stress as possible (I know, easier said than done) I drink LOTS of water all day, but mostly because I don't want to be tempted to eat something I shouldn't. I don't eat meat at all. As far as medications, take an OTC probiotic. I also have a prescription for Lomotil which helps tremendously! I would really recommend going to a doctor to make sure that is what you have. Colitis can sometimes mimic IBS (my husband has microscopic colitis) but his syptoms aren't a daily thing, his come and go every few weeks.How do you or your loved ones deal with IBS?
A reasonable amount of fiber. I prefer bran cereal. Too much or wrong kind can irritate, but it's individual. Drink plenty of water. Best med I know of is old, but have used it with a lot of success and as a nurse, I've seen it work when taken faithfully for at least a while. Donnatal is a combination drug with Belladonna for drying effect and phenobarbital to relax the spasms. Hard to develop any addiction because Belladonna is a poison in large quantities. Regular exercise helps bowels and faithful going when nature calls, esp if symptoms include constipation (it can be either) that is, don't postpone using the bathroom too long. I also have found (with constipation) abdominal massage helps. Rub up the right side of belly, accross to the left then down. Hope this helps.
Hi Rose, I have had IBS since I was in my teens. An ole country doctor told me to eat anything I want. He said the best way to control it is to take a one or two quart plain warm tap water enema everyday. It has worked for me for over 40yrs. I never have any bloating, pain, gas, tiredness, etc. I know it sounds bad, but it works.reptiles anything than
Try to eliminate as much stress as possible (I know, easier said than done) I drink LOTS of water all day, but mostly because I don't want to be tempted to eat something I shouldn't. I don't eat meat at all. As far as medications, take an OTC probiotic. I also have a prescription for Lomotil which helps tremendously! I would really recommend going to a doctor to make sure that is what you have. Colitis can sometimes mimic IBS (my husband has microscopic colitis) but his syptoms aren't a daily thing, his come and go every few weeks.How do you or your loved ones deal with IBS?
A reasonable amount of fiber. I prefer bran cereal. Too much or wrong kind can irritate, but it's individual. Drink plenty of water. Best med I know of is old, but have used it with a lot of success and as a nurse, I've seen it work when taken faithfully for at least a while. Donnatal is a combination drug with Belladonna for drying effect and phenobarbital to relax the spasms. Hard to develop any addiction because Belladonna is a poison in large quantities. Regular exercise helps bowels and faithful going when nature calls, esp if symptoms include constipation (it can be either) that is, don't postpone using the bathroom too long. I also have found (with constipation) abdominal massage helps. Rub up the right side of belly, accross to the left then down. Hope this helps.
Hi Rose, I have had IBS since I was in my teens. An ole country doctor told me to eat anything I want. He said the best way to control it is to take a one or two quart plain warm tap water enema everyday. It has worked for me for over 40yrs. I never have any bloating, pain, gas, tiredness, etc. I know it sounds bad, but it works.
How to show i love her..?
my gf made me a lil book that says A-Z and every letter she came up with something dealing with us. well i want to return the favor to show her how much i love her. any ideas? i love dealing with art stuff..i gave her 2 roses for Vday (we have been together for 2 months)How to show i love her..?
make a book from 1 to 100 and let each number represent something significant and make 100 say i love you 100 times heheHow to show i love her..?
get her a ring.
well print her pic of you and her and put i lov you on the top of it
get her something that's very dear to her heart. something that money cant buy. after you give it to her, look her in the eye and tell her you love her
propose to her. thats right, propose to her.
tell her your true feelings in a poem or something. don't get her a ring, maybe a small necklace but not a ring. wait until yall get really serious for that.
Do a little treasure hunt around town.
Each spot would be a place you have been together.
The last spot would be at a restaruant and during dinner give her a letter of how much she means to you and what makes her speacail to you.
If you like art, draw or paint her. It will make her feel great! Tell her how much you love her and then show it! Like daddy always said, ';Actions speak louder than words';. Write a letter, HAND WRITTEN. I repeat, HAND WRITTEN. It says alot abou how you feel about her. Take her to the place you met (or, if that's school, where you had your first date) and give it to her. Plus, don't talk about a bunch of other girls unless you want her to dump you. We hate that!
buy her something that you know she will love....maybe a necklace, ring, or earrings. :)
do the same thing for her
thats very sweet 2 for two months, something special you could do is make her a bracelet maby, or you could try painting a picture that describes you and her not a huge one medium size and give it to her
make a book from 1 to 100 and let each number represent something significant and make 100 say i love you 100 times heheHow to show i love her..?
get her a ring.
well print her pic of you and her and put i lov you on the top of it
get her something that's very dear to her heart. something that money cant buy. after you give it to her, look her in the eye and tell her you love her
propose to her. thats right, propose to her.
tell her your true feelings in a poem or something. don't get her a ring, maybe a small necklace but not a ring. wait until yall get really serious for that.
Do a little treasure hunt around town.
Each spot would be a place you have been together.
The last spot would be at a restaruant and during dinner give her a letter of how much she means to you and what makes her speacail to you.
If you like art, draw or paint her. It will make her feel great! Tell her how much you love her and then show it! Like daddy always said, ';Actions speak louder than words';. Write a letter, HAND WRITTEN. I repeat, HAND WRITTEN. It says alot abou how you feel about her. Take her to the place you met (or, if that's school, where you had your first date) and give it to her. Plus, don't talk about a bunch of other girls unless you want her to dump you. We hate that!
buy her something that you know she will love....maybe a necklace, ring, or earrings. :)
do the same thing for her
thats very sweet 2 for two months, something special you could do is make her a bracelet maby, or you could try painting a picture that describes you and her not a huge one medium size and give it to her
How can I deal with rejection (on love and romance)?
I try to be positive in everything I do, and I treat everyone nicely etc... but when I get rejected for some reason in the love department... it hurts me so much... and my friends keep telling me to change how I think about the situation but it still hurts... and I kinda start hating that person even though I know it's wrong to hate... how can I deal with this and do any of feel the same? It just makes me think what's wrong with me and that makes it harder to have a positive outlook on life...
Also, incase you suggest I change the way I look... I don't think it's got anything to do with it because I do take good care of myself and my appearance...How can I deal with rejection (on love and romance)?
Imagine that the shoe is on the other foot...what if you chose not to the other person? Who have that right. Actually, you have the OBLIGATION to make that choice if it's not right for you. The other person may or may not choose to feel rejected. Same as you.
You see, the other person is just making choices, same as you would. All relationships don't last forever. If they end, it's probably better for you. You don't want to be with someone who would not choose you.
Let it go, and look forward to the next relationship.How can I deal with rejection (on love and romance)?
Rejection is the greatest aphrodisiac. I don't know how to explain it to you but since I was born to this earth I was already rejected, refused, denied, neglected and abandoned by my own biological parents not only physically but also mentally and emotionally. So I guess rejection to me is like... acceptance. lololololollolololol. They are no difference between each other. Like sun and moon, hot and cold, day and night.
Grieve it and get over it quick. Life is to Short to wallow over something that didn't work out. Everything happens for a reason that only time will tell why it did happen. There is something always wanting that is better for you. You just need to give it the time to pop up and just stay positive as you have been doing and life will take you on a trip only you could dream of.
Let time do the trick.
Look at it as the other person's loss..
Remember you can't force love, if it is meant to be they will say Yes, if they say No.. then move on.
Also, incase you suggest I change the way I look... I don't think it's got anything to do with it because I do take good care of myself and my appearance...How can I deal with rejection (on love and romance)?
Imagine that the shoe is on the other foot...what if you chose not to the other person? Who have that right. Actually, you have the OBLIGATION to make that choice if it's not right for you. The other person may or may not choose to feel rejected. Same as you.
You see, the other person is just making choices, same as you would. All relationships don't last forever. If they end, it's probably better for you. You don't want to be with someone who would not choose you.
Let it go, and look forward to the next relationship.How can I deal with rejection (on love and romance)?
Rejection is the greatest aphrodisiac. I don't know how to explain it to you but since I was born to this earth I was already rejected, refused, denied, neglected and abandoned by my own biological parents not only physically but also mentally and emotionally. So I guess rejection to me is like... acceptance. lololololollolololol. They are no difference between each other. Like sun and moon, hot and cold, day and night.
Grieve it and get over it quick. Life is to Short to wallow over something that didn't work out. Everything happens for a reason that only time will tell why it did happen. There is something always wanting that is better for you. You just need to give it the time to pop up and just stay positive as you have been doing and life will take you on a trip only you could dream of.
Let time do the trick.
Look at it as the other person's loss..
Remember you can't force love, if it is meant to be they will say Yes, if they say No.. then move on.
How does one qualify for a scholarship in abroad?
I would love to study the whole Montessori course in abroad but i do not have funds to help me go through that course...i love dealing with children and attending a Montessori school has always being one of my top priorities.i do not know what to do any advice?How does one qualify for a scholarship in abroad?
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Christians: how do you deal with the contradiction, love all humanity and torture non-Christians eternally?
It seems like at least one of your dogmatic beliefs is in direct conflict with another. Contradictions in core principles are never easy to deal with and it would be far more logical if you made yourself a set of new core principles with no contradictions. Or have you guys figured out a way to live with contradicting core principles? Have you guys figured out a way to love something whilst torturing it for eternity?Christians: how do you deal with the contradiction, love all humanity and torture non-Christians eternally?
Where did you get this from? I've never seen a Christian do this, NEVER. You couldn't point out in the bible where it says this either.
Stop putting down Christians.Christians: how do you deal with the contradiction, love all humanity and torture non-Christians eternally?
True Christians DO NOT believe that. The Bible does not teach that.
We aren't the one torturing you. You are the one torturing yourself when you choose to live in disobedient. So don't ask us about torturing anyone because we don't.
By being brainwashed from an early age and following only scriptures that fit their needs and desires.
Christian read question... Brain hurt... Logic baaaaaaaad!
Hey we're like the mafia
(think this in a mafia guys voice)
Hey!! Paolo, You can either sleep with demons in hell, or you can believe me when I tell you that jesus died on the cross for you and god is real.
(end monologue)
All it takes is to believe in jesus or else you go to hell how is it so hard to do that!?
I believe you are talking about heretic Christian.
I know many Christian who are Greek Orthodox and they do not believe this, also Catholics I met. They are nice people. They think same as me-if we all believe in God and try to serve God and be good people-then we may enter paradise.
I'm a Universalist Christian. I don't believe in eternal damnation.
Too bad for you. There will be no hiding from the light!
Because Jesus is his own father...He is the God almighty of the universe and son of the God almighty of the universe.
God is a loving God but he is also a just God. He cannot have sin in his presence. We are all doomed to Hell initially. But God Sent Jesus to earth who lived a sinless life on earth adn then was punished and went to Hell. Those who do not choose to accept the gift of Christ and what he did , then they choose to be tortured for eternity.
There's nothing in my Bible about me torturing non-Christians.
There are MANY MANY contradictions in the bible. Most people chalk it up to faith and ignore the question at hand.
i can still love someone, and they make bad choices. choices have consequences, which i know, is a faux paux in american society...it is never our fault. it is the choice of the individual, has nothing to do with love. i do not see it as a contradiction.
It's all very Orwellian isn't it?
';Christians: how do you deal with the contradiction, love all humanity and torture non-Christians eternally?';
One word... meaning pleasure derived from the misfortunes of others... Schadenfreude.
~
Firstly Jesus died so all sinners have a chance to go to Heaven. Notice that small detail: not all sinners will get there. There is a reason for that: not all sinners want to go to Heaven. Now what should God do with someone that hates him? What do you do when someone who you hate turns up at your front door? Do you invite them in? No, you tell them to get lost. So does God have that same right? Of course!
Also, there are people in this world who do really bad things and don't feel any shame in it. Now should God ignore this or should he punish them? Well, rightly or wrongly, God has chosen to judge them, but to be fair, he judges everyone. But then, you say, no one would get into Heaven. That is right, no one would, except for one reason: Jesus. Yes, like it or not, God sent Jesus to die on a cross so that people, like you and me, have a choice. If you want to go to Heaven when you die, then do what God wants you to do: follow Jesus.
So God has decided that is the way it is. He is God and he made the rules. We may not like them, but we don't have a choice on that. Just like the President of the USA makes decisions and isn't answerable to anyone for them, so God has done the same thing.
Dear Desiree'
When you begin to understand that God has made a way for salvation, a free gift of love to all who will receive it and for those who reject it no eternal life with Christ; you choose;
It's sort of like you have cancer (sin) and a provision has been made for your healing but you refuse it, so you pay the consequences
Two roads, one to eternal bliss, the other to a fiery pit...choose you this day whom you will serve; you cannot serve two masters
I hope that clears it up for you once and for all
The Bible does not say that God punished the human race for one man's sin, but that the nature of sin, namely the claim that it is our right to ourselves, entered into human race through one man. Yet it says that another Man took upon Himself the sin of the human race and put it away - an infinitely more profound revelation. The nature of sin is not immorality and wrongdoing, but the nature of self-realization which leads to us saying,';I am my own god.';
When the Lord faced either people with the forces of evil in them, or people who were clean-living, moral upright, He paid no attention to the moral degradation of one, nor of the other moral attainment people. He looked at something we do, yet not seen, namely the nature of man. (John2:25)
Christ came to deliver me from this heredity of sin, and yet I refuse to let Him do so. From the moment I began to get the seal of damnation. ';This is condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light....';(John 3:19)
Hi Desiree, I hope you are well!
Theology 101 - Hell is the absence of God. When we sin, we voluntarily turn our backs on Him and separate ourselves. Once we cross the threshold of eternity, our choices become permanent. God made you and I on purpose. He wants none of us to choose to be without Him, but that is up to us. Hell, which will include full knowledge of God, but will be void of Him and all hope, will be torture.
Always praying for you, Desiree :)
PS - I didn't make the rules, I just choose to follow them.
pot meet kettle
you'll never be able to prove that god does not exist :)
I don't torture people. God doesn't torture people. People allow themselves to be thrown into the flame, and Satan and his demons will torture them.
how do you deal with the fact that you will be tourtured? not meaning this in any peculiar way, but what is it to you?
Where did you get this from? I've never seen a Christian do this, NEVER. You couldn't point out in the bible where it says this either.
Stop putting down Christians.Christians: how do you deal with the contradiction, love all humanity and torture non-Christians eternally?
True Christians DO NOT believe that. The Bible does not teach that.
We aren't the one torturing you. You are the one torturing yourself when you choose to live in disobedient. So don't ask us about torturing anyone because we don't.
By being brainwashed from an early age and following only scriptures that fit their needs and desires.
Christian read question... Brain hurt... Logic baaaaaaaad!
Hey we're like the mafia
(think this in a mafia guys voice)
Hey!! Paolo, You can either sleep with demons in hell, or you can believe me when I tell you that jesus died on the cross for you and god is real.
(end monologue)
All it takes is to believe in jesus or else you go to hell how is it so hard to do that!?
I believe you are talking about heretic Christian.
I know many Christian who are Greek Orthodox and they do not believe this, also Catholics I met. They are nice people. They think same as me-if we all believe in God and try to serve God and be good people-then we may enter paradise.
I'm a Universalist Christian. I don't believe in eternal damnation.
Too bad for you. There will be no hiding from the light!
Because Jesus is his own father...He is the God almighty of the universe and son of the God almighty of the universe.
God is a loving God but he is also a just God. He cannot have sin in his presence. We are all doomed to Hell initially. But God Sent Jesus to earth who lived a sinless life on earth adn then was punished and went to Hell. Those who do not choose to accept the gift of Christ and what he did , then they choose to be tortured for eternity.
There's nothing in my Bible about me torturing non-Christians.
There are MANY MANY contradictions in the bible. Most people chalk it up to faith and ignore the question at hand.
i can still love someone, and they make bad choices. choices have consequences, which i know, is a faux paux in american society...it is never our fault. it is the choice of the individual, has nothing to do with love. i do not see it as a contradiction.
It's all very Orwellian isn't it?
';Christians: how do you deal with the contradiction, love all humanity and torture non-Christians eternally?';
One word... meaning pleasure derived from the misfortunes of others... Schadenfreude.
~
Firstly Jesus died so all sinners have a chance to go to Heaven. Notice that small detail: not all sinners will get there. There is a reason for that: not all sinners want to go to Heaven. Now what should God do with someone that hates him? What do you do when someone who you hate turns up at your front door? Do you invite them in? No, you tell them to get lost. So does God have that same right? Of course!
Also, there are people in this world who do really bad things and don't feel any shame in it. Now should God ignore this or should he punish them? Well, rightly or wrongly, God has chosen to judge them, but to be fair, he judges everyone. But then, you say, no one would get into Heaven. That is right, no one would, except for one reason: Jesus. Yes, like it or not, God sent Jesus to die on a cross so that people, like you and me, have a choice. If you want to go to Heaven when you die, then do what God wants you to do: follow Jesus.
So God has decided that is the way it is. He is God and he made the rules. We may not like them, but we don't have a choice on that. Just like the President of the USA makes decisions and isn't answerable to anyone for them, so God has done the same thing.
Dear Desiree'
When you begin to understand that God has made a way for salvation, a free gift of love to all who will receive it and for those who reject it no eternal life with Christ; you choose;
It's sort of like you have cancer (sin) and a provision has been made for your healing but you refuse it, so you pay the consequences
Two roads, one to eternal bliss, the other to a fiery pit...choose you this day whom you will serve; you cannot serve two masters
I hope that clears it up for you once and for all
The Bible does not say that God punished the human race for one man's sin, but that the nature of sin, namely the claim that it is our right to ourselves, entered into human race through one man. Yet it says that another Man took upon Himself the sin of the human race and put it away - an infinitely more profound revelation. The nature of sin is not immorality and wrongdoing, but the nature of self-realization which leads to us saying,';I am my own god.';
When the Lord faced either people with the forces of evil in them, or people who were clean-living, moral upright, He paid no attention to the moral degradation of one, nor of the other moral attainment people. He looked at something we do, yet not seen, namely the nature of man. (John2:25)
Christ came to deliver me from this heredity of sin, and yet I refuse to let Him do so. From the moment I began to get the seal of damnation. ';This is condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light....';(John 3:19)
Hi Desiree, I hope you are well!
Theology 101 - Hell is the absence of God. When we sin, we voluntarily turn our backs on Him and separate ourselves. Once we cross the threshold of eternity, our choices become permanent. God made you and I on purpose. He wants none of us to choose to be without Him, but that is up to us. Hell, which will include full knowledge of God, but will be void of Him and all hope, will be torture.
Always praying for you, Desiree :)
PS - I didn't make the rules, I just choose to follow them.
pot meet kettle
you'll never be able to prove that god does not exist :)
I don't torture people. God doesn't torture people. People allow themselves to be thrown into the flame, and Satan and his demons will torture them.
how do you deal with the fact that you will be tourtured? not meaning this in any peculiar way, but what is it to you?
How do you deal when someone you love is diagnosed with Schizophrenia?
This person is a the wife of a good friend of mine. She had her episode in my office and I had to take her to the hospital. Now I feel guilty, because she seems so sad there. How do you cope?How do you deal when someone you love is diagnosed with Schizophrenia?
there is no easy way to deal with mental illness. it was very good of you to help this person. dont feel sorry for her. just understand the disease. if you are interested in helping her and your friend, learn about it and offer yourself as a sounding board. your friend is faced with some challenges and will need a good friend for support. look into joining a local support group as well. they are very helpful for the patient and the family and friends. good luck.How do you deal when someone you love is diagnosed with Schizophrenia?
You did the best thing by getting her help. I have someone who needs help and he is going along maniacing to everyone he gets in contact with including me-My Christmas present from my daughter and him is not seeing the grandkids. I did nothing wrong. He conjured up delusions about having me arrested and our family put up with it three times before we told him to hit the bricks with his abuse.
She may seem sad but getting her the help is joy. Peace
Schizophrenia-Any of a group of psychotic disorders usually characterized by withdrawal from reality, illogical patterns of thinking, delusions, and hallucinations, and accompanied in varying degrees by other emotional, behavioral, or intellectual disturbances. Schizophrenia is associated with dopamine imbalances in the brain and may have an underlying genetic cause.
Its better to go see a psychiatrist and a doctor who could give medicine to help them. Do the best thing for them and although shes said she has to be there to get better.
don't feel bad, or guilty about having her admitted to a hospital. sounds like you had no choice and you did the right thing i had to admit my own brother, it was the best thing for him. she probably is sad now, but in time with treatment she will be better, and be able to enjoy her life more. you did the right thing. a lot of people suffer a great deal before they get help. one day she hopefully will thank you. she is lucky to have a good friend like you. hope this helps
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there is no easy way to deal with mental illness. it was very good of you to help this person. dont feel sorry for her. just understand the disease. if you are interested in helping her and your friend, learn about it and offer yourself as a sounding board. your friend is faced with some challenges and will need a good friend for support. look into joining a local support group as well. they are very helpful for the patient and the family and friends. good luck.How do you deal when someone you love is diagnosed with Schizophrenia?
You did the best thing by getting her help. I have someone who needs help and he is going along maniacing to everyone he gets in contact with including me-My Christmas present from my daughter and him is not seeing the grandkids. I did nothing wrong. He conjured up delusions about having me arrested and our family put up with it three times before we told him to hit the bricks with his abuse.
She may seem sad but getting her the help is joy. Peace
Schizophrenia-Any of a group of psychotic disorders usually characterized by withdrawal from reality, illogical patterns of thinking, delusions, and hallucinations, and accompanied in varying degrees by other emotional, behavioral, or intellectual disturbances. Schizophrenia is associated with dopamine imbalances in the brain and may have an underlying genetic cause.
Its better to go see a psychiatrist and a doctor who could give medicine to help them. Do the best thing for them and although shes said she has to be there to get better.
don't feel bad, or guilty about having her admitted to a hospital. sounds like you had no choice and you did the right thing i had to admit my own brother, it was the best thing for him. she probably is sad now, but in time with treatment she will be better, and be able to enjoy her life more. you did the right thing. a lot of people suffer a great deal before they get help. one day she hopefully will thank you. she is lucky to have a good friend like you. hope this helps
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How can I deal with my boyfriend changing?
We have been together over 2 years. long distance relationship. Long story short, a lot has happened and he's changing.. what I consider for the worst. He's putting me under stress, he knows he has stressed me out as we talk about a lot.. we kinda have to since its the only communication we get lol. I love him more than anything, no matter what anyone says.. and I know he loves me too.. it just upsets me. He used to seem the good guy type. When we first met, he was in school.. christian.. meat eater.. nuclear family. Now, broken family.. athiest.. vegan.. he is in and out of school all the time and he's depressed. He keeps bringing up new things he's into and stuff and it upsets me cus most of it I don't want him to do. (Heres stuff he's brough up) 1.Piercings 2.Drugs 3.Tattoos 4.Self harm 5.Scarification 6.Alcohol.
I DO NOT like drugs, smoking or excessive drinking. I DO NOT want him to self harm (he says he likes the pain?)
He keeps trying so desperately it seems to be different, and unique. He's told me it's the reason he wants to do these things.. everything he does he has to be so different and I don't feel I can tell him not to be. He already hasn't done some of that stuff because he knows I don't like it. He never liked drugs drink or smoke before.. he just recently tried beer and now keeps drinking it. He never liked when I drink before. His friend influences him..he thinks the sun shines out of his ***. But I can't tell him I dont like him. Dumping him is not something I even want to consider, I just feel alone and I hate this change and I want the boyfriend that I fell for back. I'm starting to feel I'm not enough. We have deep long conversations about this stuff too and that's when I see the old him. I don't know if theres anything i can do or what? I don't know. I don't even know what I'm asking.. I feel like i just need help :(How can I deal with my boyfriend changing?
Tell him you wont stand it, and its your way or the highway. If he respects your relationship more than the drugs then he will change. If not then there are plenty of free online dating sites you can catch a new man like http://TrueDreamDate.com/How can I deal with my boyfriend changing?
aww hon, just talk to him, really talk to him and tell him how much this is hurting the both of you, and you missed the old him so much. :( i feel sad for you, and i dont even know you.
You don't need help, you need to call a taxi and get the hell out of there.
Look, I don't know how old you are, but I don't think you need a 2nd brain to see that this guy is not the same person he once was and he wants to take you down with him.
It is not your place to train and guide lost souls through life. Get the hell out of that before he screws up your life too, God, are you insane?
Try to sit down with him just the two of you. Start by asking him why he wants to do all of this stuff. If he gives you the same answer, that he wants to be different than you have to explain to him that he is different and special. Tell him how he is special to you and that you don't know anyone that is as great as him. Explain to him how much you love him and that you are worried about him. Tell him that if he hurts himself, it will hurt you. If he loves you, he will stop. He most likely just has low self-esteem and you just have to remind him that you are there for him whenever he needs it. If it is going well, you can end by praying with him. God will help him and you.
I think he likes what he is doing, and I think unless he sees what he is doing is harming himself, the only thing you can do is dump him because he is going to eventually bring you down with him. When you are in a long distance relationship then one of the other of you are going to change, for better or worse, in this case it looks like it was worse.
break up with him hey somtimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same.
It seems like there's a lot going on in his life and he doesn't know how to handle it all, so he's turning to things that aren't good. If I were you, I'd tell him how you feel about not liking what he's doing, then reassure him that you're always there for him. Maybe go visit him if it's possible.. I don't know how far away you are from him, but that would be a good idea. He just needs to know someone is there for him, and maybe you're the best person to help him out. Best of luck!
Tell him that you love him too much for him to do any of that, tell him that if he really cares about you then he should stop everything. How old are you? My boyfriend was like that... He stopped everything for me, well he still drinks but that really doesn't bother me... Tell him you love him. That he doesn't need the pain, the scars, the drugs, the alcohol, the piercings, tattoos. Tell him how much he means to you.
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If even after all the long and deep conversations you guys have about this situation , and even after you explain to him how bad it makes you feel that he does some of this stuff , hedoesn'tt change im sorry to say but hes not the same person. And if the new person he has become youdon'tt like then its time for a break up , your in love with the old him andapparentlyy hes showing you the new him. Think about it , if hehasn'tt stopped idon'tt think there is any chance of him changing .
Good Luck ! (:
I DO NOT like drugs, smoking or excessive drinking. I DO NOT want him to self harm (he says he likes the pain?)
He keeps trying so desperately it seems to be different, and unique. He's told me it's the reason he wants to do these things.. everything he does he has to be so different and I don't feel I can tell him not to be. He already hasn't done some of that stuff because he knows I don't like it. He never liked drugs drink or smoke before.. he just recently tried beer and now keeps drinking it. He never liked when I drink before. His friend influences him..he thinks the sun shines out of his ***. But I can't tell him I dont like him. Dumping him is not something I even want to consider, I just feel alone and I hate this change and I want the boyfriend that I fell for back. I'm starting to feel I'm not enough. We have deep long conversations about this stuff too and that's when I see the old him. I don't know if theres anything i can do or what? I don't know. I don't even know what I'm asking.. I feel like i just need help :(How can I deal with my boyfriend changing?
Tell him you wont stand it, and its your way or the highway. If he respects your relationship more than the drugs then he will change. If not then there are plenty of free online dating sites you can catch a new man like http://TrueDreamDate.com/How can I deal with my boyfriend changing?
aww hon, just talk to him, really talk to him and tell him how much this is hurting the both of you, and you missed the old him so much. :( i feel sad for you, and i dont even know you.
You don't need help, you need to call a taxi and get the hell out of there.
Look, I don't know how old you are, but I don't think you need a 2nd brain to see that this guy is not the same person he once was and he wants to take you down with him.
It is not your place to train and guide lost souls through life. Get the hell out of that before he screws up your life too, God, are you insane?
Try to sit down with him just the two of you. Start by asking him why he wants to do all of this stuff. If he gives you the same answer, that he wants to be different than you have to explain to him that he is different and special. Tell him how he is special to you and that you don't know anyone that is as great as him. Explain to him how much you love him and that you are worried about him. Tell him that if he hurts himself, it will hurt you. If he loves you, he will stop. He most likely just has low self-esteem and you just have to remind him that you are there for him whenever he needs it. If it is going well, you can end by praying with him. God will help him and you.
I think he likes what he is doing, and I think unless he sees what he is doing is harming himself, the only thing you can do is dump him because he is going to eventually bring you down with him. When you are in a long distance relationship then one of the other of you are going to change, for better or worse, in this case it looks like it was worse.
break up with him hey somtimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same.
It seems like there's a lot going on in his life and he doesn't know how to handle it all, so he's turning to things that aren't good. If I were you, I'd tell him how you feel about not liking what he's doing, then reassure him that you're always there for him. Maybe go visit him if it's possible.. I don't know how far away you are from him, but that would be a good idea. He just needs to know someone is there for him, and maybe you're the best person to help him out. Best of luck!
Tell him that you love him too much for him to do any of that, tell him that if he really cares about you then he should stop everything. How old are you? My boyfriend was like that... He stopped everything for me, well he still drinks but that really doesn't bother me... Tell him you love him. That he doesn't need the pain, the scars, the drugs, the alcohol, the piercings, tattoos. Tell him how much he means to you.
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If even after all the long and deep conversations you guys have about this situation , and even after you explain to him how bad it makes you feel that he does some of this stuff , hedoesn'tt change im sorry to say but hes not the same person. And if the new person he has become youdon'tt like then its time for a break up , your in love with the old him andapparentlyy hes showing you the new him. Think about it , if hehasn'tt stopped idon'tt think there is any chance of him changing .
Good Luck ! (:
What is the deal with all the love for Baron Davis?
I get it, he played great against the Mavericks. What else has he ever done to be called one of the top players in the NBA? He is unmotivated for 95% of the season, and gets mysterious injuries whenever his team is out of the playoff picture. Also, he does not put up stunning numbers. 20 ppg, 8 apg, 4 rpg was his stat line for this past season. That could be done by plenty of guys. Sure, he is a star player, but not someone hwo deserves as much love as he gets on this site. How many people honestly think he is one of the top 4 or 5 players? Hell, how many ywould put him in the top 25? Well, those people would be wrong. He is a talented yet streaky player who hit the popularity jackpot by getting hot against the Mavericks.
So, why is this guy all that great?What is the deal with all the love for Baron Davis?
You said it all... streaky, unmotivated... and overrated...
The NBA is obviously getting desperate to promote this guy they way they do.What is the deal with all the love for Baron Davis?
The reason he is so popular all of a sudden is because he brought a team that shouldn't have even made the playoffs because of such a poor lineup, into the second round of the playoffs and to be the 8th seed in the West and go against the number 1 seeded Dallas Mavericks (who everybody tipped to win the championship, might i add), makes him a very popular player, but by allstar break '08, he'll be back to the B-Diddy that he used to be.
He had a great playoff run, when he settles back into another injury-plagued season he will be forgotten.
The NBA doesn't promote Baron Davis. There have been people on this site who have said that he is better than LEBRON JAMES. That was back around the Eastern Conference Championship before game five and the end of the Finals. I totally agree with you.
HOW ARE YOU HATIN OR BARON, HE'S 6'3, SMART, QUICK, GREAT ALL AROUND PLAYER, HE LEADS THE NBA IN STEALS, AND HOW MANY POINT GUARDS ARE ';AVERAGEING'; 20+ POINTS A GAME? AND HE IS DOING ALL OF THIS AND HE HAD A ACL INJURY, WHICH CAN BE CAREER ALTERING, LOOK AT BOOBIE MILES, HE'S DROPPED MORE PEOPLE IN THE NBA THAN ANY OTHER POINT GUARD WITH A DEADLY CROSSOVER
So, why is this guy all that great?What is the deal with all the love for Baron Davis?
You said it all... streaky, unmotivated... and overrated...
The NBA is obviously getting desperate to promote this guy they way they do.What is the deal with all the love for Baron Davis?
The reason he is so popular all of a sudden is because he brought a team that shouldn't have even made the playoffs because of such a poor lineup, into the second round of the playoffs and to be the 8th seed in the West and go against the number 1 seeded Dallas Mavericks (who everybody tipped to win the championship, might i add), makes him a very popular player, but by allstar break '08, he'll be back to the B-Diddy that he used to be.
He had a great playoff run, when he settles back into another injury-plagued season he will be forgotten.
The NBA doesn't promote Baron Davis. There have been people on this site who have said that he is better than LEBRON JAMES. That was back around the Eastern Conference Championship before game five and the end of the Finals. I totally agree with you.
HOW ARE YOU HATIN OR BARON, HE'S 6'3, SMART, QUICK, GREAT ALL AROUND PLAYER, HE LEADS THE NBA IN STEALS, AND HOW MANY POINT GUARDS ARE ';AVERAGEING'; 20+ POINTS A GAME? AND HE IS DOING ALL OF THIS AND HE HAD A ACL INJURY, WHICH CAN BE CAREER ALTERING, LOOK AT BOOBIE MILES, HE'S DROPPED MORE PEOPLE IN THE NBA THAN ANY OTHER POINT GUARD WITH A DEADLY CROSSOVER
How to deal with impossible love?
How can you handle falling in love with someone, but you know that that love is impossible?How to deal with impossible love?
I'll answer that with a question: WHAT IS LOVE??How to deal with impossible love?
Why do you think that love is impossible?
Forget it.
By training your self to conquer your weaknesses starting from this case and you'd be going through a ';Mission impossible';.
Just do it.
u carry on because no one can stop u i also love someone and that love is impossible but i carry on my love and sometime my love do ......................
i've been there. It depends why it's impossible.
Love yourself more. . that usually works across the board.
I know how you feel, i was totally in love with one boy for like 3 months and he kinda liked me too but he would not go out with me so i just gave up which i shouldnt have done because now all my friends are telling me he likes me it really drives you crazy but, after all love is a crazy thing.
just follow your heart, it you want it bad enough, anything is possible. You should stop worrying and go for it, make it happen!! Who knows, it could be the best move you've ever made!
why put yourself in that kind of relationship if you know it will not be start doing more with your friends it sounds like you already know what is right for you
nothing is immpossible some things just take time and dedication. You would need to give further details before you could get a fair answer
Are you really asking about love or a relationship. Love is not impossible, but a relationship maybe impossible especially if the person is already taken. If that is the case you need to find someone else to fall in love with and just be friends with that individual.
Honestly I don't deal very well. I suppose it feels like a break up of sorts because you have to deal with losing the fantasy of what could have been and deal with the fact that you will not have that person.
I wish I could offer better advice but I am so heart broken right now all I can do is offer my thoughts and let you know you aren't alone.
I have been told time heals everything and filling up the time is the hard part.
A similar situation happened to me, I just refused to entertain those thoughts and focused on my life and keeping busy. When you take the focus off of yourself and ideas that are not healthy for you, and focus that energy on others, it really works. Volunteering at a hospital for instance only a few hours a week can really change your outlook on things that really matter. We are always going to have inappropriate feelings at some point in our lives for someone, but to the extent that we take them we are in control, and if those feelings will do more harm than good for those involved, opt not to fall victim to them... good luck!
if you know the love is impossible the only thing to do is not fall in love. and that sucks, so youve got to make sure there is no other possibility, such as patience, and waiting (love is worth waiting for) - or friendship to change their mind, etc... i guess this all depends on the reason why love is impossible.
Store it away in your heart and mind...For the precious moments you are on your own.....I have a song that reminds me of mine. That when I'm in a reflective mood I get out and play over n over......So long as you don't let it affect the possible loves in your life!!!!!
I'll answer that with a question: WHAT IS LOVE??How to deal with impossible love?
Why do you think that love is impossible?
Forget it.
By training your self to conquer your weaknesses starting from this case and you'd be going through a ';Mission impossible';.
Just do it.
u carry on because no one can stop u i also love someone and that love is impossible but i carry on my love and sometime my love do ......................
i've been there. It depends why it's impossible.
Love yourself more. . that usually works across the board.
I know how you feel, i was totally in love with one boy for like 3 months and he kinda liked me too but he would not go out with me so i just gave up which i shouldnt have done because now all my friends are telling me he likes me it really drives you crazy but, after all love is a crazy thing.
just follow your heart, it you want it bad enough, anything is possible. You should stop worrying and go for it, make it happen!! Who knows, it could be the best move you've ever made!
why put yourself in that kind of relationship if you know it will not be start doing more with your friends it sounds like you already know what is right for you
nothing is immpossible some things just take time and dedication. You would need to give further details before you could get a fair answer
Are you really asking about love or a relationship. Love is not impossible, but a relationship maybe impossible especially if the person is already taken. If that is the case you need to find someone else to fall in love with and just be friends with that individual.
Honestly I don't deal very well. I suppose it feels like a break up of sorts because you have to deal with losing the fantasy of what could have been and deal with the fact that you will not have that person.
I wish I could offer better advice but I am so heart broken right now all I can do is offer my thoughts and let you know you aren't alone.
I have been told time heals everything and filling up the time is the hard part.
A similar situation happened to me, I just refused to entertain those thoughts and focused on my life and keeping busy. When you take the focus off of yourself and ideas that are not healthy for you, and focus that energy on others, it really works. Volunteering at a hospital for instance only a few hours a week can really change your outlook on things that really matter. We are always going to have inappropriate feelings at some point in our lives for someone, but to the extent that we take them we are in control, and if those feelings will do more harm than good for those involved, opt not to fall victim to them... good luck!
if you know the love is impossible the only thing to do is not fall in love. and that sucks, so youve got to make sure there is no other possibility, such as patience, and waiting (love is worth waiting for) - or friendship to change their mind, etc... i guess this all depends on the reason why love is impossible.
Store it away in your heart and mind...For the precious moments you are on your own.....I have a song that reminds me of mine. That when I'm in a reflective mood I get out and play over n over......So long as you don't let it affect the possible loves in your life!!!!!
How do you deal with being in love with two women?
Basically I'm in love with this one girl who is 25 and is the typical personality that I'm attracted to. Then the other girl I'm in love with is 34 and is the kind of relationship that I've always wanted.
PS I'm not dating either of them and I';m 20.
PPS I've shared my feelings toward each with them.How do you deal with being in love with two women?
well your in a pickle.
umm your gonna have to pick. think of ALL THE POSSIBLE pros and cons of each then take the winner. If that one doesnt work out you know the other was meant to be.How do you deal with being in love with two women?
Pick one
This is what u should do go on a date with each of them but not at the same time,,then learn more about them and there current life .and ,chose from there on
If you're not dating either of them, you'd be a total fool to be in love with them. I've only been in love twice and in both cases it was not until after I'd been dating the chick for like 2 years and I finally had them trained to meet my sexual needs.
You are NOT in love. Maybe you should try banging these girls though.
Try three!! Haha.... I'd do the pros and cons and if it was really pretty even.... I'd to for the gouged one :) unless u like older women? But 14 years is a big difference!
Oh my.....
Maybe make a list of pros and cons for each.
^_^
PS I'm not dating either of them and I';m 20.
PPS I've shared my feelings toward each with them.How do you deal with being in love with two women?
well your in a pickle.
umm your gonna have to pick. think of ALL THE POSSIBLE pros and cons of each then take the winner. If that one doesnt work out you know the other was meant to be.How do you deal with being in love with two women?
Pick one
This is what u should do go on a date with each of them but not at the same time,,then learn more about them and there current life .and ,chose from there on
If you're not dating either of them, you'd be a total fool to be in love with them. I've only been in love twice and in both cases it was not until after I'd been dating the chick for like 2 years and I finally had them trained to meet my sexual needs.
You are NOT in love. Maybe you should try banging these girls though.
Try three!! Haha.... I'd do the pros and cons and if it was really pretty even.... I'd to for the gouged one :) unless u like older women? But 14 years is a big difference!
Oh my.....
Maybe make a list of pros and cons for each.
^_^
How do you deal with GIRLS that love to fight with other girls?
I am sweet loving person, I usually handle situation where if someone makes me mad just say oh forget about it and i also keep in track if they try to make me angry after that fact this where things kind of get on my nervous it where some girls love to POINT OUT THINGS THAT try to lower your self esteem. I have a lot in return to say but at the same time - I don't like getting into physically fights. I turn to commute things out.How do you deal with GIRLS that love to fight with other girls?
be the bigger person, walk away!How do you deal with GIRLS that love to fight with other girls?
I ignore and walk away.
Makes them look like the idiot.
I';m the exact same way and after being emotionally abused in high school I learned to trust few people but still be sweet...when you around negative people just keep to yourself mind your business so they won't get in yours meaning...you can still smile sweet and acknowledge that they are there just don't try and befriend them because they are intially not looking to be your friend but trying to find a way to make others feel less...if all possible stay away from ppl like that...hope it helps and Good Luck!get rid of acne and blackheads squirrel stalking
be the bigger person, walk away!How do you deal with GIRLS that love to fight with other girls?
I ignore and walk away.
Makes them look like the idiot.
I';m the exact same way and after being emotionally abused in high school I learned to trust few people but still be sweet...when you around negative people just keep to yourself mind your business so they won't get in yours meaning...you can still smile sweet and acknowledge that they are there just don't try and befriend them because they are intially not looking to be your friend but trying to find a way to make others feel less...if all possible stay away from ppl like that...hope it helps and Good Luck!
How has the meaning of love changed over the centuries?
Can anyone give me information like century by century on how people have dealt with love? Like from forced marriage to same sex marriage being allowed?How has the meaning of love changed over the centuries?
Love is always changing subjectively but is always the same objectively.
Love is always changing subjectively but is always the same objectively.
How can I deal with young love and a long distance relationship all in one?
I am 13 years old, and I traveled with my best friend to New York last summer and this summer, and, long story short, her13-year-old, tennis-playing, dog-loving cousin is my boyfriend now. Problems: we live more than 300 miles apart, and my mom doesn't know because I'm not supposed to date until I am 16. I can't dump him, because he likes me as much as I like him (and that's a lot). How can I deal with a long distance relationship, and should I tell my mom or not?How can I deal with young love and a long distance relationship all in one?
I think that you should break up with him or atleast tell him that you think its best to be ';together'; instead of boyfriend/girlfriend. You're so young and I'm guessing that you probably aren't planning on going to New York enough times in a year to make the relationship continue to grow. And in reality you really don't know him that well. There is only so much that you can learn and like about a person through phone/text/online conversations. Plus what if a great guy, one that would be perfect for you, comes along that lives in your area and instead of giving him a chance you don't because you are caught up on some boy that you barely know. I've tried to do long distant relationships before and they are soo hard, and being young makes it even harder. Good luck!! You should post back what you decide to do.How can I deal with young love and a long distance relationship all in one?
WOW! That is almost my exact situation. I live almost 300 miles away from the girl that I like ( I had to move because my mom didnt like living on the coast) but what I did was get her address and I started writing letters to her. We wrote letters for about 3 yrs. , then I got her email and now we talk on yahoo messenger. And she is 1 yr older than you, so our situation is very similar
I think that you should break up with him or atleast tell him that you think its best to be ';together'; instead of boyfriend/girlfriend. You're so young and I'm guessing that you probably aren't planning on going to New York enough times in a year to make the relationship continue to grow. And in reality you really don't know him that well. There is only so much that you can learn and like about a person through phone/text/online conversations. Plus what if a great guy, one that would be perfect for you, comes along that lives in your area and instead of giving him a chance you don't because you are caught up on some boy that you barely know. I've tried to do long distant relationships before and they are soo hard, and being young makes it even harder. Good luck!! You should post back what you decide to do.How can I deal with young love and a long distance relationship all in one?
WOW! That is almost my exact situation. I live almost 300 miles away from the girl that I like ( I had to move because my mom didnt like living on the coast) but what I did was get her address and I started writing letters to her. We wrote letters for about 3 yrs. , then I got her email and now we talk on yahoo messenger. And she is 1 yr older than you, so our situation is very similar
How to deal with this?
Ok im the youngest in my family. Im 20 and I have 4 older bros and 2 older sisters. They dont know im gay even though i think they suspect i am. Well anyways last night, because I dont go out too often, my sister said it wasnt normal for a guy my age not to be out on a saturday night. And then my older brothers started asking me why wasnt I out and there were so many hot girls out on the town.
I just said I wasnt interested to go out and then they started throwing questions at me like Do i have friends ? How many girls have I got with in the past few months ? Was i GAY ?
I didnt reply and they kept saying oh a gay lifestyle is not normal and its not right and if friends and extended family found out I would be cut off and alone. I just went out of the house cause i couldnt take any more of the hounding. My family is just so homophobic. They all go to church while I make a point not too, which also makes them angry. I believe in a loving god not a god portrayed hating gay people. I could never feel comfortable coming out to family as i would never be able to feel ok with it and i know that they will disown me.
While my siblings are the popular socialites who dont do much to contribute to society because they dont work, bar two of my brothers, Im more reserved and shy and in Med school. I worked so hard in school and college to get where i am in life and now they hound me all the time about my sexuality, i feel so alone as they make me feel the way i am is not right. Im sorry for the long question and would appreciate any advice. Thanks a lot!How to deal with this?
Hey Irish lad! im sorry ur in that situation. that was so unfair of ur bro and sis to say that to u. the ''gay lifestyle'' lol?? everyone is different so i totally disagree with that. and its not not ''normal'' not to go out every saturday night.
are u sure that ur family is homophobic? i recently came out to my parents and they were accepting, despite the fact i thought they'd have flipped. anyways, theres no reason for u to come out if ur not ready or if it will only make things worse.
actually my family is at mass now. i stopped going months aho because the priest bluntly came out and said the same sex marriage was wrong. i told my parents i needed to study for the Leavng cert and mass was a waste of my time. that i dont believe alot of it.
i think its awesome ur going to med school.just think of the good ul be doing in years to come. think of the stability and security ull have. will ur bro and sis have that?
btw, if they go to church and are catholics, the official teaching of the church is that gay people are to be loved and supported. there welcome in the church as long as they do not give in to their sexual preferences. in other words, not be themselves.
if u know ur parents will throw u out, then definately wait till after med school.
best of luck to u! if u want to talk just email moi.How to deal with this?
First of all, a lot of people think that a 20-yr old not liking to hang out on the weekend and do stupid stuff is ';not normal.'; It has nothing to do with being gay. When I was 20, I didn't go out much and, even though I am a lesbian, no one suspected me of being one. The only thing about you is you're a guy, and people DO expect guys to either have a girlfriend or be chasing after girls or talking about girls all the time. If anything really makes people wonder about your sexual orientation, it's that. If you had a gf, they'd back off. I'm not telling you to go out and get one, but it's your choice to come out or not come out...and if you want to cover your orientation up, it's best to talk about girls more, at the very least.
As far as the homophobic comments...it's really up to how brave you are as to how to handle it. Your options range from ignoring it and/or walking away as you did to telling people off or voicing your opinions. Since I don't particularly care whether or not people suspect/know I'm a lesbian, I have no problem telling people what I think about gays and their opinion of gays...it's just a matter of my mood at the time--sometimes I don't feel like arguing, and other times I will put forth a logical argument about how they're calling people names when there is XYZ slur they don't like being called or how thinking being gay is wrong/abnormal is an opinion not a fact. Again, if you're worried about being found out, then try to ignore them/walk away when they start saying those things.
I just said I wasnt interested to go out and then they started throwing questions at me like Do i have friends ? How many girls have I got with in the past few months ? Was i GAY ?
I didnt reply and they kept saying oh a gay lifestyle is not normal and its not right and if friends and extended family found out I would be cut off and alone. I just went out of the house cause i couldnt take any more of the hounding. My family is just so homophobic. They all go to church while I make a point not too, which also makes them angry. I believe in a loving god not a god portrayed hating gay people. I could never feel comfortable coming out to family as i would never be able to feel ok with it and i know that they will disown me.
While my siblings are the popular socialites who dont do much to contribute to society because they dont work, bar two of my brothers, Im more reserved and shy and in Med school. I worked so hard in school and college to get where i am in life and now they hound me all the time about my sexuality, i feel so alone as they make me feel the way i am is not right. Im sorry for the long question and would appreciate any advice. Thanks a lot!How to deal with this?
Hey Irish lad! im sorry ur in that situation. that was so unfair of ur bro and sis to say that to u. the ''gay lifestyle'' lol?? everyone is different so i totally disagree with that. and its not not ''normal'' not to go out every saturday night.
are u sure that ur family is homophobic? i recently came out to my parents and they were accepting, despite the fact i thought they'd have flipped. anyways, theres no reason for u to come out if ur not ready or if it will only make things worse.
actually my family is at mass now. i stopped going months aho because the priest bluntly came out and said the same sex marriage was wrong. i told my parents i needed to study for the Leavng cert and mass was a waste of my time. that i dont believe alot of it.
i think its awesome ur going to med school.just think of the good ul be doing in years to come. think of the stability and security ull have. will ur bro and sis have that?
btw, if they go to church and are catholics, the official teaching of the church is that gay people are to be loved and supported. there welcome in the church as long as they do not give in to their sexual preferences. in other words, not be themselves.
if u know ur parents will throw u out, then definately wait till after med school.
best of luck to u! if u want to talk just email moi.How to deal with this?
First of all, a lot of people think that a 20-yr old not liking to hang out on the weekend and do stupid stuff is ';not normal.'; It has nothing to do with being gay. When I was 20, I didn't go out much and, even though I am a lesbian, no one suspected me of being one. The only thing about you is you're a guy, and people DO expect guys to either have a girlfriend or be chasing after girls or talking about girls all the time. If anything really makes people wonder about your sexual orientation, it's that. If you had a gf, they'd back off. I'm not telling you to go out and get one, but it's your choice to come out or not come out...and if you want to cover your orientation up, it's best to talk about girls more, at the very least.
As far as the homophobic comments...it's really up to how brave you are as to how to handle it. Your options range from ignoring it and/or walking away as you did to telling people off or voicing your opinions. Since I don't particularly care whether or not people suspect/know I'm a lesbian, I have no problem telling people what I think about gays and their opinion of gays...it's just a matter of my mood at the time--sometimes I don't feel like arguing, and other times I will put forth a logical argument about how they're calling people names when there is XYZ slur they don't like being called or how thinking being gay is wrong/abnormal is an opinion not a fact. Again, if you're worried about being found out, then try to ignore them/walk away when they start saying those things.
How do u think Sania Mirza is going to deal with Nationalism vs love senario?
Considering Sania is married to a pakisthani, who is she going to support in a India vs Pakistan match??How can she still potray her love for india by not staying here??How do u think Sania Mirza is going to deal with Nationalism vs love senario?
Who cares about Sania!!
India's much better without her.How do u think Sania Mirza is going to deal with Nationalism vs love senario?
By moving to Dubai...
Literally.
she would support both
her pusssy will support pakistan, her booobs will support india
Support both?? lol..
Who cares about Sania!!
India's much better without her.How do u think Sania Mirza is going to deal with Nationalism vs love senario?
By moving to Dubai...
Literally.
she would support both
her pusssy will support pakistan, her booobs will support india
Support both?? lol..
How do u deal with not being with the one you love?
i was with this amazing guy and we had a fight, i got mad, and i broke up with him without thinking. I really do love him and care about him. We still talk, but it's hard talking to him when we are not together. But he has a gf now and i have no chance with him. How do i deal with still loving him when i cant have him back? please helpHow do u deal with not being with the one you love?
you have to try and keep busy doing things that make u happy. i know how you feel my gf of 7 years left me for another man. i will always love her. good luck to you.How do u deal with not being with the one you love?
This is a question alot of girls want to know! I wish i could help you...but im in the exact same boat. I kno exactly how you feel :(
get rid of everything that reminds you of himhair weave important advice
you have to try and keep busy doing things that make u happy. i know how you feel my gf of 7 years left me for another man. i will always love her. good luck to you.How do u deal with not being with the one you love?
This is a question alot of girls want to know! I wish i could help you...but im in the exact same boat. I kno exactly how you feel :(
get rid of everything that reminds you of him
How do i deal with a girl who loves me but thinks she is the stuff?(high maintenance)?
She doesnt cooperate at all.and she sorta talks to plenty of guys but says she loves me and the guys she talks to said she doesnt tell them that.i realy need help with this high maintenance.I guess you can call her a stuckup AKA gurl.....the sororityHow do i deal with a girl who loves me but thinks she is the stuff?(high maintenance)?
RUN. She will cause you more problems than good things. Trust me, get out now.
RUN. She will cause you more problems than good things. Trust me, get out now.
How to deal with cousins love affair?
my husband is in love with her first cousin, i don't know how to deal with this. i'm only 23 and we have a 5 year old daughter. help me i don;t know what to do!!!How to deal with cousins love affair?
I suppose a threesome is out of the question. can I hold the camera?How to deal with cousins love affair?
Divorce him now. If he is in love with his cousin who he will see all the time and every holiday you have no hope. Get yourself and your daughter out of there.
do you really have to ask??? if hes in love with someone else, anyone else, then hes not in love with you!!!
but his cousin????
you can tell billy joe jim bob to hit the road, hes not worth having, and would you really want your kid being raised with all of this going on?
I suppose a threesome is out of the question. can I hold the camera?How to deal with cousins love affair?
Divorce him now. If he is in love with his cousin who he will see all the time and every holiday you have no hope. Get yourself and your daughter out of there.
do you really have to ask??? if hes in love with someone else, anyone else, then hes not in love with you!!!
but his cousin????
you can tell billy joe jim bob to hit the road, hes not worth having, and would you really want your kid being raised with all of this going on?
What kind of qualities make a good nurse?
I am a hopeful nursing student and I am taking all my prerequisites to get into a nursing program...I often hear how half of the students drop out of the program and how those who graduate and get a position sometimes realize that nursing is not for them...and honestly I really don 't want that to happen to me.
I am a very good student and I am very driven to be a nurse...I know that I would definately be able to handle the academic component. I have also worked in customer service in retail and I know that I am very personable and genuinely care about the people I serve. I love dealing with the general public...but what else does it take?What kind of qualities make a good nurse?
My Mom, a retired Nurse (after more than 25 years!) is what I would consider the ';perfect person'; to become a nurse...you need: PATIENCE..PATIENCE...PATIENCE...a caring, nurturing nature, the ability to ';think on your feet';, to be able to ';multi-task';, work as a TEAM player, smile when you want to cry, be quiet when you want to scream, be willing to work long hours...put up with mean/unkind/unruly family members, mean/unkind/unruly patients and mean/unkind/unruly doctors, to be gentle, loving, and understanding...to ALWAYS remember your patients are PEOPLE who have feelings just like you do...be able to react quickly and appropriately, but most of all, be committed to HELPING people.
Those are the qualities you need to possess before embarking on such a challenging, but rewarding, career.What kind of qualities make a good nurse?
Training, experience and empathy.
patience, nurture, calmness, empathy, seriousness, and truthfulness
You will find it important to strive for a balance between compassion, or getting too close to your patients - and maintaining your professional objectives. Because of the nature of that type of work, it is very easy to identify with your patients (or their families), become so close to them - and in the process, find yourself overly stressed due to the emotional burdens you've taken on. Many people find their personal lives suffer too greatly because of this....they have very little to give to the ones they love - those who are outside of their work environment. This is one reason many find nursing just isn't for them.
This happens quite often especially in nursing professions that focus on critical care, such as cancer patients. While compassion is a wonderful trait to have, it is important to keep your professional composure. I'm sure they are courses designed to help those in the health care field deal with these issues. All the best to you.
Caring, loving and a non smoker
my cousin is in her last yr of nursing school. it takes a divided heart. you have to be able to care, and i mean actually care about the people you're helping. you have to make them believe that they are important to you. but you also have to be hardened to their situation. if you're not, then their misfortune will weigh heavy on you and easily make you depressed.
Knowledge of medicine is of great importance, but, compassion for the patients is a must to make a good nurse.
Also, a quick response to the patients need for help or for pain medication. I suppose that would be considered compassionate. Good luck with your career. It is a noble profession.
compassion and understanding is great but it helps if you aren't incompetant. I know you said you could handlethe acedemic bit but make sure you are comfortablr treating people in real life.
I am a very good student and I am very driven to be a nurse...I know that I would definately be able to handle the academic component. I have also worked in customer service in retail and I know that I am very personable and genuinely care about the people I serve. I love dealing with the general public...but what else does it take?What kind of qualities make a good nurse?
My Mom, a retired Nurse (after more than 25 years!) is what I would consider the ';perfect person'; to become a nurse...you need: PATIENCE..PATIENCE...PATIENCE...a caring, nurturing nature, the ability to ';think on your feet';, to be able to ';multi-task';, work as a TEAM player, smile when you want to cry, be quiet when you want to scream, be willing to work long hours...put up with mean/unkind/unruly family members, mean/unkind/unruly patients and mean/unkind/unruly doctors, to be gentle, loving, and understanding...to ALWAYS remember your patients are PEOPLE who have feelings just like you do...be able to react quickly and appropriately, but most of all, be committed to HELPING people.
Those are the qualities you need to possess before embarking on such a challenging, but rewarding, career.What kind of qualities make a good nurse?
Training, experience and empathy.
patience, nurture, calmness, empathy, seriousness, and truthfulness
You will find it important to strive for a balance between compassion, or getting too close to your patients - and maintaining your professional objectives. Because of the nature of that type of work, it is very easy to identify with your patients (or their families), become so close to them - and in the process, find yourself overly stressed due to the emotional burdens you've taken on. Many people find their personal lives suffer too greatly because of this....they have very little to give to the ones they love - those who are outside of their work environment. This is one reason many find nursing just isn't for them.
This happens quite often especially in nursing professions that focus on critical care, such as cancer patients. While compassion is a wonderful trait to have, it is important to keep your professional composure. I'm sure they are courses designed to help those in the health care field deal with these issues. All the best to you.
Caring, loving and a non smoker
my cousin is in her last yr of nursing school. it takes a divided heart. you have to be able to care, and i mean actually care about the people you're helping. you have to make them believe that they are important to you. but you also have to be hardened to their situation. if you're not, then their misfortune will weigh heavy on you and easily make you depressed.
Knowledge of medicine is of great importance, but, compassion for the patients is a must to make a good nurse.
Also, a quick response to the patients need for help or for pain medication. I suppose that would be considered compassionate. Good luck with your career. It is a noble profession.
compassion and understanding is great but it helps if you aren't incompetant. I know you said you could handlethe acedemic bit but make sure you are comfortablr treating people in real life.
My love dealing is not good.?
I very often captivate. And captivate news mans. but no one fall in love. I dont find HIM. No one who i very like heed to me. I want some advice how consorn with MAns who i like.My love dealing is not good.?
U will fall in love with it is time ~
And u just know who is the right one~My love dealing is not good.?
Just take your time, you are trying to hard, turn your desires and wants over to God and let him help you
U will fall in love with it is time ~
And u just know who is the right one~My love dealing is not good.?
Just take your time, you are trying to hard, turn your desires and wants over to God and let him help you
How can I start a career in Human Resources, and still make what I鈥檓 making right now?
I studied Business, I love dealing with people, the more people I get to talk to in a day, the happier I am. I wanted to work in human resources, but they wouldn檛 give me a job anywhere because I had no experience. I took a job in Quality Control translating the process manuals. I got so familiarized with everything they made me technical writer, then they made me quality inspector, and now I am a production coordinator. I got promoted so much in 3 years, it made other people with engineering degrees jealous. I檓 really good at what I do, but that doesn檛 mean I like it. I still want to be in human resources, I檝e gone to many job interviews these past 3 years, but I still have no experience, no one seems to want to give me a job in that area, and now I檓 used to making good money to just start working at some low-paying position. How can I get started in human resources, and still make what I檓 making right now?How can I start a career in Human Resources, and still make what I檓 making right now?
1. Speak to the HR team in your own company
2. If you are willing to relocate, look for jobs in other states/countries--maybe they will pay more
Good luck!How can I start a career in Human Resources, and still make what I檓 making right now?
You could consider getting a job at an employment agency, like Apple One working as a Recruiter or Account Executive. It is a sales/HR position but is a good entry level job into HR. After working there for 2 years you could find an in-house recruiter position, utilizing the skills you learned at Apple One and that would be an HR position. Usually Apple One Account Executives make 40K base and 1st year potential is 60K+. In house recruiters make 50-100K +. It is a good way to jump into HR!
It may also help if you look into PIHRA and SPHR. You could also get HR certs through them.
ALSO- If you don't want to go the recruitment route, you will need to to back to school, earn certs and/or a degree in HR and then take a HUGE paycut to start at the bottom.
Good Luck! E-mail me if I could help you any further! - Christie
Typically when anyone makes a career change, they have to be prepared to start at the bottom. Human resources requires a lot of legal knowledge in terms of employment laws. In some cases companies require a legal degree.
The entry level positions in HR are very clerically oriented and require exceptional writing and communications skills.
You would need to take your knowledge and skills in the position that you are in and convince someone that your skills are easily transferable to an HR position.
Another option to get your foot in the door would be to take classes pertaining to HR or employment law. However I am sure you will be looking at a substantial decrease in pay when you make the trasition.
This is easy... but i'm not sure if you will make the same money in the end.
If HR is what you really want to do... Go back to school and earn a HR management certificate. There are many schools that offer it... even online.
It will take 1 to 1.5 yrs.
Also, meet with your HR department at work and let them know about your career goals. It sounds like you are a STAR anyway, so they will probably be receptive. Ask them if there is anyway you could play intern while you are earning your certificate.
By the time you graduate - you could have over a years worth of experience and a professional certificate under your belt. Not only that, but your HR dept might offer you a job. I know they'd hate to lose one of their best.
Good luck !
I'm an HR Rep and have been for the past 8+years. It was hard for me to break into HR. What I would suggest is getting your PHR certification I will put the link at the bottom of this question. This certification is crucial to the HR realm because it covers everything. It does take a lot of work to attain it, but if an HR dept sees that on your resume they wil know you are well trained.
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1. Speak to the HR team in your own company
2. If you are willing to relocate, look for jobs in other states/countries--maybe they will pay more
Good luck!How can I start a career in Human Resources, and still make what I檓 making right now?
You could consider getting a job at an employment agency, like Apple One working as a Recruiter or Account Executive. It is a sales/HR position but is a good entry level job into HR. After working there for 2 years you could find an in-house recruiter position, utilizing the skills you learned at Apple One and that would be an HR position. Usually Apple One Account Executives make 40K base and 1st year potential is 60K+. In house recruiters make 50-100K +. It is a good way to jump into HR!
It may also help if you look into PIHRA and SPHR. You could also get HR certs through them.
ALSO- If you don't want to go the recruitment route, you will need to to back to school, earn certs and/or a degree in HR and then take a HUGE paycut to start at the bottom.
Good Luck! E-mail me if I could help you any further! - Christie
Typically when anyone makes a career change, they have to be prepared to start at the bottom. Human resources requires a lot of legal knowledge in terms of employment laws. In some cases companies require a legal degree.
The entry level positions in HR are very clerically oriented and require exceptional writing and communications skills.
You would need to take your knowledge and skills in the position that you are in and convince someone that your skills are easily transferable to an HR position.
Another option to get your foot in the door would be to take classes pertaining to HR or employment law. However I am sure you will be looking at a substantial decrease in pay when you make the trasition.
This is easy... but i'm not sure if you will make the same money in the end.
If HR is what you really want to do... Go back to school and earn a HR management certificate. There are many schools that offer it... even online.
It will take 1 to 1.5 yrs.
Also, meet with your HR department at work and let them know about your career goals. It sounds like you are a STAR anyway, so they will probably be receptive. Ask them if there is anyway you could play intern while you are earning your certificate.
By the time you graduate - you could have over a years worth of experience and a professional certificate under your belt. Not only that, but your HR dept might offer you a job. I know they'd hate to lose one of their best.
Good luck !
I'm an HR Rep and have been for the past 8+years. It was hard for me to break into HR. What I would suggest is getting your PHR certification I will put the link at the bottom of this question. This certification is crucial to the HR realm because it covers everything. It does take a lot of work to attain it, but if an HR dept sees that on your resume they wil know you are well trained.
Best wishes.
Love? Big Deal. Anyone wanna go over this short writing piece with me? Don't worry, it's not like it sounds.?
Love is a spring breeze.
Love is looking in somebody檚 eyes and knowing you would die to protect them.
Love is a mother檚 warmth.
Big deal. A thousand people have made poetry just like that. And it gets more redundant every time it檚 read. I檓 not saying that it檚 not true. Love is all of those things. But who are we to say who love is? Humans (or dolphins for that matter, but for the intents and purposes of this rant, humans) cannot truly inscribe their feelings onto a piece of paper. Goodness knows it檚 been tried. Writers, painters, poets, sculptors, even architects. All of these people are trying to transfer feeling into the physical realm.
It can檛 be done. There aren檛 words, pictures, of structures that can explain the intensity of one檚 passion for something. I don檛 know about languages like that African one with the clicking noises, but I do know that in all of the English and Spanish dictionaries alike, there is not a single word that I can ever put on a piece of paper to describe how I檓 feeling. We have basic emotional words like happy, sad, and angry. We even have more complex ones, such as nervous, excited, and quixotic. And then there is love.
Honestly, you have love. What is love? There are several different kinds of love. Love for family, love for friends, love for your favorite food. And sometimes we try to discern the different kinds of love from the others. But the basis remains that love is a deep caring for something. And I think that that should be enough. Is it worth it to try to understand what is probably the best part and entire point of human (and dolphin, but we檝e been over this) existence?
No, it檚 not worth it. My advice to you, reader, is to stop reading this piece after you have concluded this paragraph, and not think about love. Just do it. Love eating your popcorn, no matter how unhealthy it is. Love all of your friends and just how lucky you are to have each and every one. Love whoever you檙e in a relationship with, and if you檙e single, then love the fact that you won檛 be forever. And finally, most importantly, love your family, because when it comes right down to it, they檝e been there since day one.Love? Big Deal. Anyone wanna go over this short writing piece with me? Don't worry, it's not like it sounds.?
wow love all your details and opinions.... great time!
Love is looking in somebody檚 eyes and knowing you would die to protect them.
Love is a mother檚 warmth.
Big deal. A thousand people have made poetry just like that. And it gets more redundant every time it檚 read. I檓 not saying that it檚 not true. Love is all of those things. But who are we to say who love is? Humans (or dolphins for that matter, but for the intents and purposes of this rant, humans) cannot truly inscribe their feelings onto a piece of paper. Goodness knows it檚 been tried. Writers, painters, poets, sculptors, even architects. All of these people are trying to transfer feeling into the physical realm.
It can檛 be done. There aren檛 words, pictures, of structures that can explain the intensity of one檚 passion for something. I don檛 know about languages like that African one with the clicking noises, but I do know that in all of the English and Spanish dictionaries alike, there is not a single word that I can ever put on a piece of paper to describe how I檓 feeling. We have basic emotional words like happy, sad, and angry. We even have more complex ones, such as nervous, excited, and quixotic. And then there is love.
Honestly, you have love. What is love? There are several different kinds of love. Love for family, love for friends, love for your favorite food. And sometimes we try to discern the different kinds of love from the others. But the basis remains that love is a deep caring for something. And I think that that should be enough. Is it worth it to try to understand what is probably the best part and entire point of human (and dolphin, but we檝e been over this) existence?
No, it檚 not worth it. My advice to you, reader, is to stop reading this piece after you have concluded this paragraph, and not think about love. Just do it. Love eating your popcorn, no matter how unhealthy it is. Love all of your friends and just how lucky you are to have each and every one. Love whoever you檙e in a relationship with, and if you檙e single, then love the fact that you won檛 be forever. And finally, most importantly, love your family, because when it comes right down to it, they檝e been there since day one.Love? Big Deal. Anyone wanna go over this short writing piece with me? Don't worry, it's not like it sounds.?
wow love all your details and opinions.... great time!
My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
We have this friend, let's call her ';Betty';.
She's amazing and together we're all always having a good time.
But recently, she keeps making up this stupid FAKE stories for no reason.
1. She made up this extra ';school'; she goes to that teaches etiquette and is ';high class';. She's always blabbing on about what happens there, new friends she meets there, stuff she does there. After talking about it for months, we asked her what the name was or where it was. She replied with saying it檚 located somewhere deep in town and you can檛 google in since you can only get in if your related by blood or some crap like that.
2. She檚 made up more than 5 imaginary friends. She has names for them, how they look and she檚 always talking about what she does with them and how she hangs out with them. It檚 clear she檚 lying because such friends don檛 exist. We ask to hang out with them but Betty always has an excuse . We ask if we could see their facebook, pictures, anything but she says they don檛 have any.
3. The worst thing she檚 done so far is her fake boyfriend. She MADE UP a boyfriend to appear cool to us. We never saw him, heard him, or anything. I can't even put in to words how obvious her lying was.
Now she檚 got a new phone and she檚 calling my other friend and pretending to be some boy asking if my friend could help him ask Betty out when it檚 Betty herself. She is now faking to be someone else.
This is getting out of hand for us. At first, we went along with it and said whatever, let her have her fun. But now it檚 just stupid. How could she look in our eyes and deliberately lie? She檚 becoming such a phony friend, it檚 horrible. Why would she even lie? It檚 not like she has to impress our group of friends. We still love her but we can檛 put up with any of this crap anymore.
Any advice on what we should do?My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
Shes probally trying to show off. Sne wants you to think she all that and maybe be jelous. I hate when my friends lie to me, trust me. You shouldn't be her friend. You have more friends.. TRUE friends.My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
shes gonna become a ***** later on. this girl has been my best friend, but she became like that and faking a boyfriend and friends just like that. she makes up all this drama crap about her and her boyfriend flirting together. she always says her brother is a famous football player but nobody even heard of his name that i cant tell you. she became into and ignorrant *****, so we are now enemies. you friend there might become and ignorant ***** too. when she tries to make up drama crap, ignore her and cut her off saying something like ';lets go to that tree'; and make those kind of things so she gets sick and tired of being cut off. she will stop later. just fix her up before she becomes a real ***** who is trying to look good.
She will grow out of it,
it's a very immature thing to do.. as she gets older she will feel more comfortable and stop with the lies.
She is at the stage where she feels the only way she would be accepted is to make up stories.
Tell her you know she made all those things up and she needs to stop because it is making her look bad and that she does not NEED to make things up because you all like her ANYWAY,she does NOT need to impress you all.
I'm not really sure if maybe just you should sit her down and call her bluff on all this stuff, or whether a group of her friends should all do it together. You might be the best judge of that, but you or all of you need to let her know that you went along with all of her fantasies at first because you didn't see any harm in it to let her have her fun, but now it's all just getting ridiculous and you're worried about her if she continues to live this make believe life. Just tell it like it is and refuse to listen to that crap any longer.
shes a compulsive liar and thing is that she sounds JUST LIKE ME and I am 26 yrs old.
I think since she's so used to It It's going to be really hard for her to stop. Like I've said before I am just like your friend and It Is very hard for me to stop my lying as well. I lie about anything and everything I could possibly think of. I've lied about being In a abusive relationship with someone I am obsessive with and kept It going for 4 years straight and up until this day I still lie about It. your friend cant control herself from stopping herself not to lie anymore that Is why she does that. I can control myself IF I wanted to. If shes a good friend of yours then you should help her as much as you can. All liars need help, I know I sure do. Good luck!
She's amazing and together we're all always having a good time.
But recently, she keeps making up this stupid FAKE stories for no reason.
1. She made up this extra ';school'; she goes to that teaches etiquette and is ';high class';. She's always blabbing on about what happens there, new friends she meets there, stuff she does there. After talking about it for months, we asked her what the name was or where it was. She replied with saying it檚 located somewhere deep in town and you can檛 google in since you can only get in if your related by blood or some crap like that.
2. She檚 made up more than 5 imaginary friends. She has names for them, how they look and she檚 always talking about what she does with them and how she hangs out with them. It檚 clear she檚 lying because such friends don檛 exist. We ask to hang out with them but Betty always has an excuse . We ask if we could see their facebook, pictures, anything but she says they don檛 have any.
3. The worst thing she檚 done so far is her fake boyfriend. She MADE UP a boyfriend to appear cool to us. We never saw him, heard him, or anything. I can't even put in to words how obvious her lying was.
Now she檚 got a new phone and she檚 calling my other friend and pretending to be some boy asking if my friend could help him ask Betty out when it檚 Betty herself. She is now faking to be someone else.
This is getting out of hand for us. At first, we went along with it and said whatever, let her have her fun. But now it檚 just stupid. How could she look in our eyes and deliberately lie? She檚 becoming such a phony friend, it檚 horrible. Why would she even lie? It檚 not like she has to impress our group of friends. We still love her but we can檛 put up with any of this crap anymore.
Any advice on what we should do?My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
Shes probally trying to show off. Sne wants you to think she all that and maybe be jelous. I hate when my friends lie to me, trust me. You shouldn't be her friend. You have more friends.. TRUE friends.My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
shes gonna become a ***** later on. this girl has been my best friend, but she became like that and faking a boyfriend and friends just like that. she makes up all this drama crap about her and her boyfriend flirting together. she always says her brother is a famous football player but nobody even heard of his name that i cant tell you. she became into and ignorrant *****, so we are now enemies. you friend there might become and ignorant ***** too. when she tries to make up drama crap, ignore her and cut her off saying something like ';lets go to that tree'; and make those kind of things so she gets sick and tired of being cut off. she will stop later. just fix her up before she becomes a real ***** who is trying to look good.
She will grow out of it,
it's a very immature thing to do.. as she gets older she will feel more comfortable and stop with the lies.
She is at the stage where she feels the only way she would be accepted is to make up stories.
Tell her you know she made all those things up and she needs to stop because it is making her look bad and that she does not NEED to make things up because you all like her ANYWAY,she does NOT need to impress you all.
I'm not really sure if maybe just you should sit her down and call her bluff on all this stuff, or whether a group of her friends should all do it together. You might be the best judge of that, but you or all of you need to let her know that you went along with all of her fantasies at first because you didn't see any harm in it to let her have her fun, but now it's all just getting ridiculous and you're worried about her if she continues to live this make believe life. Just tell it like it is and refuse to listen to that crap any longer.
shes a compulsive liar and thing is that she sounds JUST LIKE ME and I am 26 yrs old.
I think since she's so used to It It's going to be really hard for her to stop. Like I've said before I am just like your friend and It Is very hard for me to stop my lying as well. I lie about anything and everything I could possibly think of. I've lied about being In a abusive relationship with someone I am obsessive with and kept It going for 4 years straight and up until this day I still lie about It. your friend cant control herself from stopping herself not to lie anymore that Is why she does that. I can control myself IF I wanted to. If shes a good friend of yours then you should help her as much as you can. All liars need help, I know I sure do. Good luck!
How to deal with bullying at a playground? ok to discipline other kids?
over the last 5 or 6 weeks iv started taking my son to a big indoor playground once or twice a week now that we are coming into winter. twice now he has been bullied, for no reason. my son is 22 months and pretty much sticks to the dedicated toddler area. the first time was in the ball pit where an older boy (maybe 3 or 4) started throwing balls at my sons face from close range, my fiance was there and asked the boy to stop it as my son was getting very upset, the boy didnt stop so we told him to leave the ball pit (we had seen him throw balls at a little girl about 5 minutes before he did it to my son) aqnd he didnt, his mum came over and then gave him a proper telling off and he stopped, but by that time my son was in tears.
Today when we went was pretty bad. in the first 5 minutes we were there he was hurt. there is a little play house with a kitchen type thing with plastic pots and pans and fruit etc which he loves to play in and there was a boy about 5-7 years in the toddler area (meant to be 1-4 only), his mum was in there also with 2 younger children which is why im guessing the older boy was in there. Anyway, my son went into the play house and went to pick up a plastic apple and this boy put his arm around my sons neck, pulled his hair and scratched his neck he actually was bleeding from the scratches. I dont knwo how long it went on for as i was playing with our younger daughter, but when i walked over he had him in a headlock and was pulling his hair and my son was balling. I told the older boy to let him go and he just poked his tounge out at me and smiled, his mum was there and could see what was going on and didnt stop it. So i went in there and pulled the boy away from my son (he had blood down his neck and was beside himself) and the mother gave me a dirty look and i just said to her ';control your fcuking son'; probably could have done without the language but i was furious!
How are you supposed to handle these situations? The only staff they have are a couple of teenage waitresses who work in the cafe part so there is no supervision except parents.How to deal with bullying at a playground? ok to discipline other kids?
My GOD, I would have been furious! You handled it well, and I applaud your patience. I probably would have gone cursing a monologue at the mother or something.
If there was an adult in the area, I would have told you to report it immediately. Perhaps you still can...show the scars to some higher authority. I doubt that will really do anything...but at least you can rest assured that you took some action.
Again, i think you handled it very well. I truly think it's great you remained patient. You could have yelled at the boy more loudly or something, so it would catch more people's attention...you know, more witnesses.How to deal with bullying at a playground? ok to discipline other kids?
Slap that boy into tomaro xD no just jokes dont but you should keep a better watch on your son or maybe try and pull him away from you son I wouldnt have disiplined her son if she wasnt going to
I would have reacted the same way as you. Jesus christ, why do parents let their kids get away with things like that?!
I think you just need to continue taking control if the mother doesn't, it's the only way you can ensure your child is safe.
Sounds like you handled it excellently, to be honest. I wonder if there is another, better supervised play area near you where you could go. If you make a complaint to the staff there (and they MUST surely have an accident book to record injuries for legal reasons) then maybe they will think about soing something.
Bullying has become a major issue and I hope they will pass a law about it......there's been kids killing themselves because of bulling......I think you should find another playground to go to.........take your child out of this situation.......
well i have not gone threw that situation but my cousin has, her daughter was playing on the slide and a kid bigger than her pushed her off of the side of it and my cousin took her daughter somewhere else after telling the kid that wasn't nice. She then played on the swings and the same kid was coming toward her and pushed her, then my cousin found the mother and told her that if she did not control her son she will.
but i would just calmly tell the mother that she needs to teach her kid some manners and be nice to others before bringing him/her back.
I probably would have took my kid over to that woman, shown her the blood, slapped her in the face and told her to keep her legs closed if she doesn't know how to control her children.
So I think how you reacted was very mild ;-)
I would have been a lot more severe, I think you handled it well.
take ur kids to Karate Lessons or any sort or of self-defence art class. It works for everyone
Today when we went was pretty bad. in the first 5 minutes we were there he was hurt. there is a little play house with a kitchen type thing with plastic pots and pans and fruit etc which he loves to play in and there was a boy about 5-7 years in the toddler area (meant to be 1-4 only), his mum was in there also with 2 younger children which is why im guessing the older boy was in there. Anyway, my son went into the play house and went to pick up a plastic apple and this boy put his arm around my sons neck, pulled his hair and scratched his neck he actually was bleeding from the scratches. I dont knwo how long it went on for as i was playing with our younger daughter, but when i walked over he had him in a headlock and was pulling his hair and my son was balling. I told the older boy to let him go and he just poked his tounge out at me and smiled, his mum was there and could see what was going on and didnt stop it. So i went in there and pulled the boy away from my son (he had blood down his neck and was beside himself) and the mother gave me a dirty look and i just said to her ';control your fcuking son'; probably could have done without the language but i was furious!
How are you supposed to handle these situations? The only staff they have are a couple of teenage waitresses who work in the cafe part so there is no supervision except parents.How to deal with bullying at a playground? ok to discipline other kids?
My GOD, I would have been furious! You handled it well, and I applaud your patience. I probably would have gone cursing a monologue at the mother or something.
If there was an adult in the area, I would have told you to report it immediately. Perhaps you still can...show the scars to some higher authority. I doubt that will really do anything...but at least you can rest assured that you took some action.
Again, i think you handled it very well. I truly think it's great you remained patient. You could have yelled at the boy more loudly or something, so it would catch more people's attention...you know, more witnesses.How to deal with bullying at a playground? ok to discipline other kids?
Slap that boy into tomaro xD no just jokes dont but you should keep a better watch on your son or maybe try and pull him away from you son I wouldnt have disiplined her son if she wasnt going to
I would have reacted the same way as you. Jesus christ, why do parents let their kids get away with things like that?!
I think you just need to continue taking control if the mother doesn't, it's the only way you can ensure your child is safe.
Sounds like you handled it excellently, to be honest. I wonder if there is another, better supervised play area near you where you could go. If you make a complaint to the staff there (and they MUST surely have an accident book to record injuries for legal reasons) then maybe they will think about soing something.
Bullying has become a major issue and I hope they will pass a law about it......there's been kids killing themselves because of bulling......I think you should find another playground to go to.........take your child out of this situation.......
well i have not gone threw that situation but my cousin has, her daughter was playing on the slide and a kid bigger than her pushed her off of the side of it and my cousin took her daughter somewhere else after telling the kid that wasn't nice. She then played on the swings and the same kid was coming toward her and pushed her, then my cousin found the mother and told her that if she did not control her son she will.
but i would just calmly tell the mother that she needs to teach her kid some manners and be nice to others before bringing him/her back.
I probably would have took my kid over to that woman, shown her the blood, slapped her in the face and told her to keep her legs closed if she doesn't know how to control her children.
So I think how you reacted was very mild ;-)
I would have been a lot more severe, I think you handled it well.
take ur kids to Karate Lessons or any sort or of self-defence art class. It works for everyone
Please help me - I don't know how to deal with love.?
All my life, everything I did was work and take care of other people's needs: mom, dad, brother, friends. Never gave a man a chance to love me because of my fear of losing him, losing love, losing in general.And here I am, 36, with all the things we usually thrive to have but for love. An there he comes, a man I thought I only wanted to have sex with but turns to have touched something inside to wake me up. He said since day one he does not want to be my sex buddy only. That he is not the kind of a man to play with and leave. That he need to be stable and wants to try with me, but that we should take it slow and one step at a time if we want to see it work.Common friends tell me he is falling in love. I do too. But I am completely petrified of the idea of having met the right person. It is so completely new I have to clue how to deal with it. I need a good person in my life to share it with and he may be the one, but I am mostly afraid rather than able.Pls help me deal with it.Please!Please help me - I don't know how to deal with love.?
Don't be afraid. Take a chance. It's better to have loved and be loved than not at all. If you're afraid of getting hurt, don't let that stop you from embracing this moment/experience. Nothing is engraved in stone. Take the leap of faith and go with it otherwise you may regret it in the future. You may miss out on something great!!Please help me - I don't know how to deal with love.?
give him a shorter versionof what you told us. sounds like he might be a good one. you might as well start off on the RIGHt foot and be honest admit you are a little scared. be sure to so him that you appreciate him taking the time to listen.
Good luck girl,
Aloha
How will you ever know if he is the one if you don't give him a chance? Then you will find yourself later contemplating...';what if, what if';. You don't want to live in the ';shoulda,coulda,wouldas'; at some point you are going to have to swallow your fear and take a leap of chance. Have faith in yourself, and your ability to love and accept love. you just might become one of the happiest women alive...but you'll never know unless you take that chance.
I bet the people in oyur family apprecieate you taking care of them, but the truth is take a little time for your self, fall.
You deserve a little time. Everyone is afraid of loosing love, but you will never have it without taking the risk. We learn by testing things out and if he is the right then you should feel happy and overjoyed. But if he is the wrong one, than the thing that i know best is we heal. Not Nessesarly over time,
time can only make it worse sometimes, but by how you react rember you are still young.Everyone has at least 5 true soul mates in this world, who says he's not the right one. I know your afraid we all are, if he's the right one you will have butterfly's in your stomach the moment you see him. As for the feeling of meeting the right person embrace it, love is the closest thing we have to magic in this world.Live a little.
- Dont Be Afaid, Have Hope, Strength, Fall for him, Fall hard
Don't be afraid. Take a chance. It's better to have loved and be loved than not at all. If you're afraid of getting hurt, don't let that stop you from embracing this moment/experience. Nothing is engraved in stone. Take the leap of faith and go with it otherwise you may regret it in the future. You may miss out on something great!!Please help me - I don't know how to deal with love.?
give him a shorter versionof what you told us. sounds like he might be a good one. you might as well start off on the RIGHt foot and be honest admit you are a little scared. be sure to so him that you appreciate him taking the time to listen.
Good luck girl,
Aloha
How will you ever know if he is the one if you don't give him a chance? Then you will find yourself later contemplating...';what if, what if';. You don't want to live in the ';shoulda,coulda,wouldas'; at some point you are going to have to swallow your fear and take a leap of chance. Have faith in yourself, and your ability to love and accept love. you just might become one of the happiest women alive...but you'll never know unless you take that chance.
I bet the people in oyur family apprecieate you taking care of them, but the truth is take a little time for your self, fall.
You deserve a little time. Everyone is afraid of loosing love, but you will never have it without taking the risk. We learn by testing things out and if he is the right then you should feel happy and overjoyed. But if he is the wrong one, than the thing that i know best is we heal. Not Nessesarly over time,
time can only make it worse sometimes, but by how you react rember you are still young.Everyone has at least 5 true soul mates in this world, who says he's not the right one. I know your afraid we all are, if he's the right one you will have butterfly's in your stomach the moment you see him. As for the feeling of meeting the right person embrace it, love is the closest thing we have to magic in this world.Live a little.
- Dont Be Afaid, Have Hope, Strength, Fall for him, Fall hard
How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
My father in law is of the Christian faith and so am I
but the hole time I was dating my wife he would tell her
things like I'm not the man that god ment for her to
be with and he knows this because God told him so
so one night he ask her to take a ride with him and
i couldn't come along he said so they went off for about 3 hours
when she came back to me she told me to go home because she couldn't
marrey me because off of things that her dad had told her about me
but he didn't know me at all I had never seen the man more then and few hours
at that time in my life so how could he say all these bad things
baout me when he didn't even know me at so i was from la and my wife was from ky
she told me to go. i was very upset I felt that i did nothing wrong other then falling in love
with her.but when i told her if i go i don't want so much as a letter or a phone call from you. then she started
crying and told me she was only do what her that family wanted her to do because her dad had
Manipulate in to thinking that god would turn his back on her if she married me because it's not what god
wanted for her.he would keep telling her that she had a better destiny and if married she would be doomed if she married
and evertime we would have a special moments like our first kiss or first dance they would kill the moment by calling her
up and telling all these things about god they had her under so much confusion in fact to days befor we got married my brother in law sent her a text message that said give me one more shot to talk you out of it.marrying this guy.
but they didn't know we were getting married we just ran off and did it and me and her are not kids are anything like that
I am 26 and she 27 at the time...but they act like I should be begging them for forgiveness becuse we ran off and got married and didn't tell anyone and it makes me just want to hit her father mean i never would but thats the way i feel. i think my wife sometimes thinks that our marriage is doom because of all she had let her family put me threw but i still
love her very much she fears as we are getting ready to have kids that they will try to kill this special time for me as
well..i just trying to know what i should do with thses people. how can i ever trust them around my kids when i know what they have told my wife?How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
start being a total di ck act like spencer lol
no inlaw prbHow do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
it's got nothing to do with kids.
bible tells born again believers not to marry anyone who is not Christian, biblical born again believer, Jesus Himself told Nicodemus ye must be born again.
talk to a pastor, its imperative.
Tell them both , that God also cam to you one night and spoke to you.
He said '; You were meant to be with her and he only told your father in law that to test his faith';
God talks to everyone, not just your father in law.
He cannot receive such revelation for her. If she really is this religious to where she believes so adamantly in God then she should know that God will not reveal such an incredible revelation to anyone but herself. It sounds to me that she needs to find herself and her own values and beliefs. If she continues to believe what she does, great support her because obviously you loved her through all her beliefs and you KNEW what kind of family you were getting into. I have in law issue's as well and at this point, I allow them to be my husbands parents but I ignore them. They have no respect for me what-so-ever and the feelings not far from mutual. I respect them for raising their son respectively and honorably but I do not respect them for what they stand for. She should not allow her family to be so controlling of her choices. In the scriptures it says to ';Leave your parents and cleave unto your spouse'; She married you with the knowledge that her parents disapproved. Their opinion should no longer manipulate her. She is not going to hell for being married to you, you're not the devil she committed no crime in marrying you.what can i do hair clippers
My father in law is of the Christian faith and so am I
but the hole time I was dating my wife he would tell her
things like I'm not the man that god ment for her to
be with and he knows this because God told him so
so one night he ask her to take a ride with him and
i couldn't come along he said so they went off for about 3 hours
when she came back to me she told me to go home because she couldn't
marrey me because off of things that her dad had told her about me
but he didn't know me at all I had never seen the man more then and few hours
at that time in my life so how could he say all these bad things
baout me when he didn't even know me at so i was from la and my wife was from ky
she told me to go. i was very upset I felt that i did nothing wrong other then falling in love
with her.but when i told her if i go i don't want so much as a letter or a phone call from you. then she started
crying and told me she was only do what her that family wanted her to do because her dad had
Manipulate in to thinking that god would turn his back on her if she married me because it's not what god
wanted for her.he would keep telling her that she had a better destiny and if married she would be doomed if she married
and evertime we would have a special moments like our first kiss or first dance they would kill the moment by calling her
up and telling all these things about god they had her under so much confusion in fact to days befor we got married my brother in law sent her a text message that said give me one more shot to talk you out of it.marrying this guy.
but they didn't know we were getting married we just ran off and did it and me and her are not kids are anything like that
I am 26 and she 27 at the time...but they act like I should be begging them for forgiveness becuse we ran off and got married and didn't tell anyone and it makes me just want to hit her father mean i never would but thats the way i feel. i think my wife sometimes thinks that our marriage is doom because of all she had let her family put me threw but i still
love her very much she fears as we are getting ready to have kids that they will try to kill this special time for me as
well..i just trying to know what i should do with thses people. how can i ever trust them around my kids when i know what they have told my wife?How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
start being a total di ck act like spencer lol
no inlaw prbHow do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
it's got nothing to do with kids.
bible tells born again believers not to marry anyone who is not Christian, biblical born again believer, Jesus Himself told Nicodemus ye must be born again.
talk to a pastor, its imperative.
Tell them both , that God also cam to you one night and spoke to you.
He said '; You were meant to be with her and he only told your father in law that to test his faith';
God talks to everyone, not just your father in law.
He cannot receive such revelation for her. If she really is this religious to where she believes so adamantly in God then she should know that God will not reveal such an incredible revelation to anyone but herself. It sounds to me that she needs to find herself and her own values and beliefs. If she continues to believe what she does, great support her because obviously you loved her through all her beliefs and you KNEW what kind of family you were getting into. I have in law issue's as well and at this point, I allow them to be my husbands parents but I ignore them. They have no respect for me what-so-ever and the feelings not far from mutual. I respect them for raising their son respectively and honorably but I do not respect them for what they stand for. She should not allow her family to be so controlling of her choices. In the scriptures it says to ';Leave your parents and cleave unto your spouse'; She married you with the knowledge that her parents disapproved. Their opinion should no longer manipulate her. She is not going to hell for being married to you, you're not the devil she committed no crime in marrying you.
How can I start a career in Human Resources, and still make what I鈥檓 making right now?
I studied Business, I love dealing with people, the more people I get to talk to in a day, the happier I am. I wanted to work in human resources, but they wouldn檛 give me a job anywhere because I had no experience. I took a job in Quality Control translating the process manuals. I got so familiarized with everything they made me technical writer, then they made me quality inspector, and now I am a production coordinator. I got promoted so much in 3 years, it made other people with engineering degrees jealous. I檓 really good at what I do, but that doesn檛 mean I like it. I still want to be in human resources, I檝e gone to many job interviews these past 3 years, but I still have no experience, no one seems to want to give me a job in that area, and now I檓 used to making good money to just start working at some low-paying position. How can I get started in human resources, and still make what I檓 making right now?How can I start a career in Human Resources, and still make what I檓 making right now?
1. Speak to the HR team in your own company
2. If you are willing to relocate, look for jobs in other states/countries--maybe they will pay more
Good luck!How can I start a career in Human Resources, and still make what I檓 making right now?
You could consider getting a job at an employment agency, like Apple One working as a Recruiter or Account Executive. It is a sales/HR position but is a good entry level job into HR. After working there for 2 years you could find an in-house recruiter position, utilizing the skills you learned at Apple One and that would be an HR position. Usually Apple One Account Executives make 40K base and 1st year potential is 60K+. In house recruiters make 50-100K +. It is a good way to jump into HR!
It may also help if you look into PIHRA and SPHR. You could also get HR certs through them.
ALSO- If you don't want to go the recruitment route, you will need to to back to school, earn certs and/or a degree in HR and then take a HUGE paycut to start at the bottom.
Good Luck! E-mail me if I could help you any further! - Christie
Typically when anyone makes a career change, they have to be prepared to start at the bottom. Human resources requires a lot of legal knowledge in terms of employment laws. In some cases companies require a legal degree.
The entry level positions in HR are very clerically oriented and require exceptional writing and communications skills.
You would need to take your knowledge and skills in the position that you are in and convince someone that your skills are easily transferable to an HR position.
Another option to get your foot in the door would be to take classes pertaining to HR or employment law. However I am sure you will be looking at a substantial decrease in pay when you make the trasition.
This is easy... but i'm not sure if you will make the same money in the end.
If HR is what you really want to do... Go back to school and earn a HR management certificate. There are many schools that offer it... even online.
It will take 1 to 1.5 yrs.
Also, meet with your HR department at work and let them know about your career goals. It sounds like you are a STAR anyway, so they will probably be receptive. Ask them if there is anyway you could play intern while you are earning your certificate.
By the time you graduate - you could have over a years worth of experience and a professional certificate under your belt. Not only that, but your HR dept might offer you a job. I know they'd hate to lose one of their best.
Good luck !
I'm an HR Rep and have been for the past 8+years. It was hard for me to break into HR. What I would suggest is getting your PHR certification I will put the link at the bottom of this question. This certification is crucial to the HR realm because it covers everything. It does take a lot of work to attain it, but if an HR dept sees that on your resume they wil know you are well trained.
Best wishes.
1. Speak to the HR team in your own company
2. If you are willing to relocate, look for jobs in other states/countries--maybe they will pay more
Good luck!How can I start a career in Human Resources, and still make what I檓 making right now?
You could consider getting a job at an employment agency, like Apple One working as a Recruiter or Account Executive. It is a sales/HR position but is a good entry level job into HR. After working there for 2 years you could find an in-house recruiter position, utilizing the skills you learned at Apple One and that would be an HR position. Usually Apple One Account Executives make 40K base and 1st year potential is 60K+. In house recruiters make 50-100K +. It is a good way to jump into HR!
It may also help if you look into PIHRA and SPHR. You could also get HR certs through them.
ALSO- If you don't want to go the recruitment route, you will need to to back to school, earn certs and/or a degree in HR and then take a HUGE paycut to start at the bottom.
Good Luck! E-mail me if I could help you any further! - Christie
Typically when anyone makes a career change, they have to be prepared to start at the bottom. Human resources requires a lot of legal knowledge in terms of employment laws. In some cases companies require a legal degree.
The entry level positions in HR are very clerically oriented and require exceptional writing and communications skills.
You would need to take your knowledge and skills in the position that you are in and convince someone that your skills are easily transferable to an HR position.
Another option to get your foot in the door would be to take classes pertaining to HR or employment law. However I am sure you will be looking at a substantial decrease in pay when you make the trasition.
This is easy... but i'm not sure if you will make the same money in the end.
If HR is what you really want to do... Go back to school and earn a HR management certificate. There are many schools that offer it... even online.
It will take 1 to 1.5 yrs.
Also, meet with your HR department at work and let them know about your career goals. It sounds like you are a STAR anyway, so they will probably be receptive. Ask them if there is anyway you could play intern while you are earning your certificate.
By the time you graduate - you could have over a years worth of experience and a professional certificate under your belt. Not only that, but your HR dept might offer you a job. I know they'd hate to lose one of their best.
Good luck !
I'm an HR Rep and have been for the past 8+years. It was hard for me to break into HR. What I would suggest is getting your PHR certification I will put the link at the bottom of this question. This certification is crucial to the HR realm because it covers everything. It does take a lot of work to attain it, but if an HR dept sees that on your resume they wil know you are well trained.
Best wishes.
Love? Big Deal. Anyone wanna go over this short writing piece with me? Don't worry, it's not like it sounds.?
Love is a spring breeze.
Love is looking in somebody檚 eyes and knowing you would die to protect them.
Love is a mother檚 warmth.
Big deal. A thousand people have made poetry just like that. And it gets more redundant every time it檚 read. I檓 not saying that it檚 not true. Love is all of those things. But who are we to say who love is? Humans (or dolphins for that matter, but for the intents and purposes of this rant, humans) cannot truly inscribe their feelings onto a piece of paper. Goodness knows it檚 been tried. Writers, painters, poets, sculptors, even architects. All of these people are trying to transfer feeling into the physical realm.
It can檛 be done. There aren檛 words, pictures, of structures that can explain the intensity of one檚 passion for something. I don檛 know about languages like that African one with the clicking noises, but I do know that in all of the English and Spanish dictionaries alike, there is not a single word that I can ever put on a piece of paper to describe how I檓 feeling. We have basic emotional words like happy, sad, and angry. We even have more complex ones, such as nervous, excited, and quixotic. And then there is love.
Honestly, you have love. What is love? There are several different kinds of love. Love for family, love for friends, love for your favorite food. And sometimes we try to discern the different kinds of love from the others. But the basis remains that love is a deep caring for something. And I think that that should be enough. Is it worth it to try to understand what is probably the best part and entire point of human (and dolphin, but we檝e been over this) existence?
No, it檚 not worth it. My advice to you, reader, is to stop reading this piece after you have concluded this paragraph, and not think about love. Just do it. Love eating your popcorn, no matter how unhealthy it is. Love all of your friends and just how lucky you are to have each and every one. Love whoever you檙e in a relationship with, and if you檙e single, then love the fact that you won檛 be forever. And finally, most importantly, love your family, because when it comes right down to it, they檝e been there since day one.Love? Big Deal. Anyone wanna go over this short writing piece with me? Don't worry, it's not like it sounds.?
wow love all your details and opinions.... great time!
Love is looking in somebody檚 eyes and knowing you would die to protect them.
Love is a mother檚 warmth.
Big deal. A thousand people have made poetry just like that. And it gets more redundant every time it檚 read. I檓 not saying that it檚 not true. Love is all of those things. But who are we to say who love is? Humans (or dolphins for that matter, but for the intents and purposes of this rant, humans) cannot truly inscribe their feelings onto a piece of paper. Goodness knows it檚 been tried. Writers, painters, poets, sculptors, even architects. All of these people are trying to transfer feeling into the physical realm.
It can檛 be done. There aren檛 words, pictures, of structures that can explain the intensity of one檚 passion for something. I don檛 know about languages like that African one with the clicking noises, but I do know that in all of the English and Spanish dictionaries alike, there is not a single word that I can ever put on a piece of paper to describe how I檓 feeling. We have basic emotional words like happy, sad, and angry. We even have more complex ones, such as nervous, excited, and quixotic. And then there is love.
Honestly, you have love. What is love? There are several different kinds of love. Love for family, love for friends, love for your favorite food. And sometimes we try to discern the different kinds of love from the others. But the basis remains that love is a deep caring for something. And I think that that should be enough. Is it worth it to try to understand what is probably the best part and entire point of human (and dolphin, but we檝e been over this) existence?
No, it檚 not worth it. My advice to you, reader, is to stop reading this piece after you have concluded this paragraph, and not think about love. Just do it. Love eating your popcorn, no matter how unhealthy it is. Love all of your friends and just how lucky you are to have each and every one. Love whoever you檙e in a relationship with, and if you檙e single, then love the fact that you won檛 be forever. And finally, most importantly, love your family, because when it comes right down to it, they檝e been there since day one.Love? Big Deal. Anyone wanna go over this short writing piece with me? Don't worry, it's not like it sounds.?
wow love all your details and opinions.... great time!
My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
We have this friend, let's call her ';Betty';.
She's amazing and together we're all always having a good time.
But recently, she keeps making up this stupid FAKE stories for no reason.
1. She made up this extra ';school'; she goes to that teaches etiquette and is ';high class';. She's always blabbing on about what happens there, new friends she meets there, stuff she does there. After talking about it for months, we asked her what the name was or where it was. She replied with saying it檚 located somewhere deep in town and you can檛 google in since you can only get in if your related by blood or some crap like that.
2. She檚 made up more than 5 imaginary friends. She has names for them, how they look and she檚 always talking about what she does with them and how she hangs out with them. It檚 clear she檚 lying because such friends don檛 exist. We ask to hang out with them but Betty always has an excuse . We ask if we could see their facebook, pictures, anything but she says they don檛 have any.
3. The worst thing she檚 done so far is her fake boyfriend. She MADE UP a boyfriend to appear cool to us. We never saw him, heard him, or anything. I can't even put in to words how obvious her lying was.
Now she檚 got a new phone and she檚 calling my other friend and pretending to be some boy asking if my friend could help him ask Betty out when it檚 Betty herself. She is now faking to be someone else.
This is getting out of hand for us. At first, we went along with it and said whatever, let her have her fun. But now it檚 just stupid. How could she look in our eyes and deliberately lie? She檚 becoming such a phony friend, it檚 horrible. Why would she even lie? It檚 not like she has to impress our group of friends. We still love her but we can檛 put up with any of this crap anymore.
Any advice on what we should do?My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
Tell her you know she made all those things up and she needs to stop because it is making her look bad and that she does not NEED to make things up because you all like her ANYWAY,she does NOT need to impress you all.My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
Shes probally trying to show off. Sne wants you to think she all that and maybe be jelous. I hate when my friends lie to me, trust me. You shouldn't be her friend. You have more friends.. TRUE friends.
shes gonna become a ***** later on. this girl has been my best friend, but she became like that and faking a boyfriend and friends just like that. she makes up all this drama crap about her and her boyfriend flirting together. she always says her brother is a famous football player but nobody even heard of his name that i cant tell you. she became into and ignorrant *****, so we are now enemies. you friend there might become and ignorant ***** too. when she tries to make up drama crap, ignore her and cut her off saying something like ';lets go to that tree'; and make those kind of things so she gets sick and tired of being cut off. she will stop later. just fix her up before she becomes a real ***** who is trying to look good.
I'm not really sure if maybe just you should sit her down and call her bluff on all this stuff, or whether a group of her friends should all do it together. You might be the best judge of that, but you or all of you need to let her know that you went along with all of her fantasies at first because you didn't see any harm in it to let her have her fun, but now it's all just getting ridiculous and you're worried about her if she continues to live this make believe life. Just tell it like it is and refuse to listen to that crap any longer.
shes a compulsive liar and thing is that she sounds JUST LIKE ME and I am 26 yrs old.
I think since she's so used to It It's going to be really hard for her to stop. Like I've said before I am just like your friend and It Is very hard for me to stop my lying as well. I lie about anything and everything I could possibly think of. I've lied about being In a abusive relationship with someone I am obsessive with and kept It going for 4 years straight and up until this day I still lie about It. your friend cant control herself from stopping herself not to lie anymore that Is why she does that. I can control myself IF I wanted to. If shes a good friend of yours then you should help her as much as you can. All liars need help, I know I sure do. Good luck!
She will grow out of it,
it's a very immature thing to do.. as she gets older she will feel more comfortable and stop with the lies.
She is at the stage where she feels the only way she would be accepted is to make up stories.
She's amazing and together we're all always having a good time.
But recently, she keeps making up this stupid FAKE stories for no reason.
1. She made up this extra ';school'; she goes to that teaches etiquette and is ';high class';. She's always blabbing on about what happens there, new friends she meets there, stuff she does there. After talking about it for months, we asked her what the name was or where it was. She replied with saying it檚 located somewhere deep in town and you can檛 google in since you can only get in if your related by blood or some crap like that.
2. She檚 made up more than 5 imaginary friends. She has names for them, how they look and she檚 always talking about what she does with them and how she hangs out with them. It檚 clear she檚 lying because such friends don檛 exist. We ask to hang out with them but Betty always has an excuse . We ask if we could see their facebook, pictures, anything but she says they don檛 have any.
3. The worst thing she檚 done so far is her fake boyfriend. She MADE UP a boyfriend to appear cool to us. We never saw him, heard him, or anything. I can't even put in to words how obvious her lying was.
Now she檚 got a new phone and she檚 calling my other friend and pretending to be some boy asking if my friend could help him ask Betty out when it檚 Betty herself. She is now faking to be someone else.
This is getting out of hand for us. At first, we went along with it and said whatever, let her have her fun. But now it檚 just stupid. How could she look in our eyes and deliberately lie? She檚 becoming such a phony friend, it檚 horrible. Why would she even lie? It檚 not like she has to impress our group of friends. We still love her but we can檛 put up with any of this crap anymore.
Any advice on what we should do?My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
Tell her you know she made all those things up and she needs to stop because it is making her look bad and that she does not NEED to make things up because you all like her ANYWAY,she does NOT need to impress you all.My friend is a big, big, big LIAR, how do we deal with this?
Shes probally trying to show off. Sne wants you to think she all that and maybe be jelous. I hate when my friends lie to me, trust me. You shouldn't be her friend. You have more friends.. TRUE friends.
shes gonna become a ***** later on. this girl has been my best friend, but she became like that and faking a boyfriend and friends just like that. she makes up all this drama crap about her and her boyfriend flirting together. she always says her brother is a famous football player but nobody even heard of his name that i cant tell you. she became into and ignorrant *****, so we are now enemies. you friend there might become and ignorant ***** too. when she tries to make up drama crap, ignore her and cut her off saying something like ';lets go to that tree'; and make those kind of things so she gets sick and tired of being cut off. she will stop later. just fix her up before she becomes a real ***** who is trying to look good.
I'm not really sure if maybe just you should sit her down and call her bluff on all this stuff, or whether a group of her friends should all do it together. You might be the best judge of that, but you or all of you need to let her know that you went along with all of her fantasies at first because you didn't see any harm in it to let her have her fun, but now it's all just getting ridiculous and you're worried about her if she continues to live this make believe life. Just tell it like it is and refuse to listen to that crap any longer.
shes a compulsive liar and thing is that she sounds JUST LIKE ME and I am 26 yrs old.
I think since she's so used to It It's going to be really hard for her to stop. Like I've said before I am just like your friend and It Is very hard for me to stop my lying as well. I lie about anything and everything I could possibly think of. I've lied about being In a abusive relationship with someone I am obsessive with and kept It going for 4 years straight and up until this day I still lie about It. your friend cant control herself from stopping herself not to lie anymore that Is why she does that. I can control myself IF I wanted to. If shes a good friend of yours then you should help her as much as you can. All liars need help, I know I sure do. Good luck!
She will grow out of it,
it's a very immature thing to do.. as she gets older she will feel more comfortable and stop with the lies.
She is at the stage where she feels the only way she would be accepted is to make up stories.
Will I ever find love? Will I ever get a boyfriend? Will I ever get married?
I find it hard to believe in all of the things dealing with love and dating. I haven't had a boyfriend since junior high and I'm in college. I see friends getting boyfriends and girlfriends. Friends getting engaged. Friends getting married. Friends getting pregnant. But I'm left in the dust with virtually no one. Will I ever find love? How long do I have to wait? I'm finding it very difficult staying positive.Will I ever find love? Will I ever get a boyfriend? Will I ever get married?
im a 16 year old boy and feel exactly the same way. just live your life and you will me the man of your dreams. or at least someone who your attracted to and vise versa. a lot of men and people feel the same way at your age. if your worried about not meeting people, join a social club. acting, painting, a gym, anything. just do yourself a favor and don't worry about it. live your life. how you see fit, your still young and im guessing attractive. you've got plenty of time :)Will I ever find love? Will I ever get a boyfriend? Will I ever get married?
youre still young i wouldnt worry about it, i had my first boyfriend at the end of high school and now 4years later with much trial and tribulations we are engaged to be married, jus focus on your studies and love will find you
im a 16 year old boy and feel exactly the same way. just live your life and you will me the man of your dreams. or at least someone who your attracted to and vise versa. a lot of men and people feel the same way at your age. if your worried about not meeting people, join a social club. acting, painting, a gym, anything. just do yourself a favor and don't worry about it. live your life. how you see fit, your still young and im guessing attractive. you've got plenty of time :)Will I ever find love? Will I ever get a boyfriend? Will I ever get married?
youre still young i wouldnt worry about it, i had my first boyfriend at the end of high school and now 4years later with much trial and tribulations we are engaged to be married, jus focus on your studies and love will find you
How do I deal with losing my love?
Hello, i am 15 almost 16 and i just lost the love of my life. We got along so well together and we were perfect until i starting acting odd. I wasn't myself. But for my own sake i wont go into those details. Here's the hard part, she was the first person i had sex with and i don't know how to get over this and get over the thoughts of her having sex with anyone else. Can someone please help me deal with all of this?How do I deal with losing my love?
You screwed up.
What else is there to do?How do I deal with losing my love?
You young man has a serious problem! You need to work through what is was that made you start acting odd as you call it.
My concern is, if you don't get help you maybe capable of doing something dangerous to someone.
Your girlfriend is only a baby, but she has a lot of life ahead of her. If keep thinking about her having sex with someone else you are liable to blow up like a volcano!
If you do, how many people will be left standing afterwards??????????
Get all your **** dealt with, come out the other-side changed and offer your girlfriend a new you!
It's time you started talking to her, let her know what happened to you, and what you are going to do to get the help that you need. She must be so devastated at loosing you!
your 15 you don't know what LOVE is you think that your world is over and blah blah blah I know im sounding like a jerk but get over it. and the sex thing your tooooo immature to deal with its pshycological effects hence you thinking you in LOVE
dude to dude I went through the same thing and romances come and go you'll find someone else I promise so just relax and don't think about it go party :)
First be sure that your willing to loose her, even after sharing that experience with her. So she broke up with you for acting odd? , well if she would brake up with you for only that reason, then she isn't worth it.
But if there's more to it... IDK;
you should just fill your head with other stuff... try not to think about it so much ... your still young... you could always find someone better whenever the time is right... just at the mean while lay low and give your self some space... in order to think over what you true-ly want to do then .. you could just move on freely after that .. ;;; %26lt;3!''
im sorry, i know how you feel, i was with someone young too, i said they were the love of my life,..you get realy comfortable with thema nd cant imagine life without them..if you want her back, you gotta let her come too you.
please read on, i know your exact situation....you have a long time to live still...shes the love of your teen years..but do you thinks its practical to think your going to marry her?
try figureing out the things you want to do in life..keep your mind active ok?
just....keep her in your mind and heart but dont hurt yourself...try not to wait for her.
if you will ever get back with her..she will let you know...be yourself around her, or when your with your feriends and she sees you, thats what she wants to see..show her your ok without her and she might think twice. that shes the one that acutaly needs you.
There are many more girls to come, you haven't even gone past a quarter of your life. I know how u feel...been there and done that. U got to learn to let things go, I know its hard, but u will get through it. Go out with your friends, meet more people, u will feel a lot better when time passes, make your own goals and keep yourself busy, theres a lot more to see in this world than u think
aw man! that sucks
but you are almost 16 and she will become a memory soon. Just keep busy on other things,
and there's no such thing as only one love. Along the way, we find the person that makes us feel better than the last one and willl stay with us no matter what. so dont torture yourself with memories... it's better to just keep busy with stuff u like
You are 15. You are way to young to have lost the love of your life. There are lots of girls out there. You will probably go through at least 3 more girls before you find the real love of your life.
go out with you friends!! have a good time! don't just stay inside and moan about it!....it'll do u no good......and you are wayy too young to say shes the ';love of your life'; trust me.....there will be many more to come!!!!
http://www.google.com/search?client=oper
fix your attitude
Love at your age is not love. It's addiction. True love lives within you and you'll feel it once you stop your mind from possessing you.
you know that you could have gotten over this better if you DIDNT have sex especially at your age
hang out with your friends
im sure there already cooking
up some half-a** scheme to make
you feel better=^^=
Well If She Was Your First Your Always Gona Have Somethinq special For Her. %26amp;%26amp; Im Sry. =] Go Out %26amp; HAve Fun. Enjoy Life To Dha Fullest.!
kill yourself
go outside ... talk to new people
tough one dude
the only way is to move on, thats what i did
thats why u should never date at this age. %26gt;.%26gt;install theme into v3i be considered abandonment
You screwed up.
What else is there to do?How do I deal with losing my love?
You young man has a serious problem! You need to work through what is was that made you start acting odd as you call it.
My concern is, if you don't get help you maybe capable of doing something dangerous to someone.
Your girlfriend is only a baby, but she has a lot of life ahead of her. If keep thinking about her having sex with someone else you are liable to blow up like a volcano!
If you do, how many people will be left standing afterwards??????????
Get all your **** dealt with, come out the other-side changed and offer your girlfriend a new you!
It's time you started talking to her, let her know what happened to you, and what you are going to do to get the help that you need. She must be so devastated at loosing you!
your 15 you don't know what LOVE is you think that your world is over and blah blah blah I know im sounding like a jerk but get over it. and the sex thing your tooooo immature to deal with its pshycological effects hence you thinking you in LOVE
dude to dude I went through the same thing and romances come and go you'll find someone else I promise so just relax and don't think about it go party :)
First be sure that your willing to loose her, even after sharing that experience with her. So she broke up with you for acting odd? , well if she would brake up with you for only that reason, then she isn't worth it.
But if there's more to it... IDK;
you should just fill your head with other stuff... try not to think about it so much ... your still young... you could always find someone better whenever the time is right... just at the mean while lay low and give your self some space... in order to think over what you true-ly want to do then .. you could just move on freely after that .. ;;; %26lt;3!''
im sorry, i know how you feel, i was with someone young too, i said they were the love of my life,..you get realy comfortable with thema nd cant imagine life without them..if you want her back, you gotta let her come too you.
please read on, i know your exact situation....you have a long time to live still...shes the love of your teen years..but do you thinks its practical to think your going to marry her?
try figureing out the things you want to do in life..keep your mind active ok?
just....keep her in your mind and heart but dont hurt yourself...try not to wait for her.
if you will ever get back with her..she will let you know...be yourself around her, or when your with your feriends and she sees you, thats what she wants to see..show her your ok without her and she might think twice. that shes the one that acutaly needs you.
There are many more girls to come, you haven't even gone past a quarter of your life. I know how u feel...been there and done that. U got to learn to let things go, I know its hard, but u will get through it. Go out with your friends, meet more people, u will feel a lot better when time passes, make your own goals and keep yourself busy, theres a lot more to see in this world than u think
aw man! that sucks
but you are almost 16 and she will become a memory soon. Just keep busy on other things,
and there's no such thing as only one love. Along the way, we find the person that makes us feel better than the last one and willl stay with us no matter what. so dont torture yourself with memories... it's better to just keep busy with stuff u like
You are 15. You are way to young to have lost the love of your life. There are lots of girls out there. You will probably go through at least 3 more girls before you find the real love of your life.
go out with you friends!! have a good time! don't just stay inside and moan about it!....it'll do u no good......and you are wayy too young to say shes the ';love of your life'; trust me.....there will be many more to come!!!!
http://www.google.com/search?client=oper
fix your attitude
Love at your age is not love. It's addiction. True love lives within you and you'll feel it once you stop your mind from possessing you.
you know that you could have gotten over this better if you DIDNT have sex especially at your age
hang out with your friends
im sure there already cooking
up some half-a** scheme to make
you feel better=^^=
Well If She Was Your First Your Always Gona Have Somethinq special For Her. %26amp;%26amp; Im Sry. =] Go Out %26amp; HAve Fun. Enjoy Life To Dha Fullest.!
kill yourself
go outside ... talk to new people
tough one dude
the only way is to move on, thats what i did
thats why u should never date at this age. %26gt;.%26gt;
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