How to deal with a love situation..... please help so confused need opinions BAD !?

I have my ex who I love very much. We broke up a couple of months ago because we had too much going on in our lives to be together so we figured take time for ourselves before we ruin what we have, and get back togehter. we decided to not see other people, but time started to drag on and i wanted to get back together and he didnt want to yet, he still had too much going on to be able to give me what i needed. I recently started dating a new guy, it just kinda happened, who i also have feelings for. Now my ex wants to talk with me, if i still feel strongly about my ex and want to be with him, do i tell him about this other guy ive been dating ? and how do i tell this most recent guy if i do get back with my ex, i dont want to hurt anyone here. but im scared to loose my ex if i decide i want to get back with him and tell him about this other guy..... please helpHow to deal with a love situation..... please help so confused need opinions BAD !?
You dont have to be scared to lose anyone. Because if your ex leaves or your current bf leaves you its their lost. Its really hard to say can you see you and you ex going long term maybe more or the other guy. Not saying choose your ex, its something you have to think really hard an compare both. GL with this.How to deal with a love situation..... please help so confused need opinions BAD !?
sounds like you want the cake and be able to eat it too,you need to make a decision
Well I have figured out it is great to be honest and say what is on your mind the first time around. If you have feelings for your Ex you have to tell the guy you are with right away, otherwise you will be dealing with the guilt of wanting two ppl. It is difficult to see in the beginning but telling the truth is always right. Its better to get through it than to have feeling build up and have them broken up in the end. Be true to yourself and those you care for.
Of Course you tell him about this other guy -- he's the one that wasn't ready to get together- what , did he think you'd wait forever?? didn't happen!!!

Just be honest w/ your ex -- tell him there is somebody else -- and make sure he wants to be back together with you --- If you want to be with him -- be with him-- don't be playing 2 guys though.

don't keep dragging it on.
Hi there-



It seems from your email that you and your ex are probably in your early 20's or teens. There's a reason why people are ex'es and break up. You weren't very decriptive on why you broke up. If you both love one another so much, that doesn't seem like such a compeling reason to break up. ';Having too much going on in your lives';.



I would not mention you are dating someone else to your ex. This would only hurt him. I would say talk to your ex and really examine the relationship and see if it would make sense to try to see each other again or continue going your separate ways. Really examine why you broke up and look at the pros and cons. Hope this helps!