Friday, November 19, 2010

Do you know how to deal with love? i feel like killing my self.?

i love someone so much, but it's unrequited. we're really good friends but i love her so much! i don't know what to do any more. should i just ask her out and then she can say no and maybe i can move on, though i don't think it's possible. or should i just stay as close as possible to her an hope some thing happens 1 day? I've been so depressed over this that i've tryed to kill myself but unfortunatly i only died for 3 mins. PLEASE...PLEASE help my i don't kow what to do. i wish i was just dead......she's sooooo perfect.Do you know how to deal with love? i feel like killing my self.?
Ask her out! Worst case scenario, she'll say No! Even then, why would you want to kill yourself because of this? No ONE is worth killing yourself for.. The greatest love should be within yourself. If you still feel vulnerable after all the advice you've received, Please seek some counseling. Good luck!Do you know how to deal with love? i feel like killing my self.?
Seek professional help.
Since you do not know her feelings about you, why don't you try to learn how she feels about you? Even if she rejects you, there is no reason nor cause to kill yourself....there are plenty of eligible and lovely girls out there and certainly they would take an interest in you - just be the good and intelligent person I think you are and believe in yourself. Even if a few reject you - there are still many more out there. It is a big world and you may have many relationships in your life before you settle down with the person whom you feel is the right one.



Now breathe deeply and relax and you'll feel better and don't get too eager or anxious or you might scare her away.



Good Luck!
You should seek some guidance from a counselor if this has hurt you so much that you don't feel like life is worth living anymore. They say that love hurts, but if it has knocked the wind out of your sails so much that you don't want to live, then it has gone too far.



Beyond that, I think you need closure to this situation. Assuming she is not married, yeah, I think you should tell her how you feel to get these feelings off her chest. Just spit it out and say: I like you as more than a friend, do you ever think about us being more than just friends? Maybe call her one night %26amp; have this conversation over the phone %26amp; it would be easier than face-to-face.



If you find that only being her friend is too painful, then maybe you should consider finding someone else to be ';just friends'; with for a while until you have completely moved on.



And also- your desparation is not healthy - it sounds like you would be too clingy in a relationship, so that needs to be addressed.

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