How can I deal with really wanting to have sex with my girlfriend?

I've been with my 20 year old girlfriend for a year and a half (I'm 21). She's a very intelligent, beautiful and caring girl who I extremely respect. After I'd been with her for 2 months, she let me know that she wasn't interested in and didn't desire any type of sexual activity for a long time in to the future, if at all. I fully respected this and have always kept our relationship strictly as a loving one and never talk sexually in any way, shape or form. Things are kept strictly non sexual.



Recently I slipped up by flirtatiously telling her in a fun way that I would like to pleasure her orally. She wasn't too impressed and I immediately apologised.



I'm really in love with this girl and admire everything about her. The only problem is that I find her extremely physically attractive and am finding it hard to block out and ignore my strong sexual desires for her. She's driving me crazy and I'm constantly thinking of taking the next step with her.



Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do to deal with this a little more easily?How can I deal with really wanting to have sex with my girlfriend?
Wow, that really sucks dude. Obviously you don't wanna pass up someone like that. Just do your best and eventually she will see you love her and it will happenHow can I deal with really wanting to have sex with my girlfriend?
may i suggest referencing the third paragraph of your post. i recommend telling her what you wrote in it.
as her if she treats u as a bf or gf and general driver. if she is waiting for marriage then its good propose to her otherwise let her go and wait for a better guy by herself. u r no ones free driver